做最的自我范文Truly happyandsuessful peoplegetthat waybybeingthebest,mostgenuineversionofthemselvestheycanbe.Notontheoutside--on theinside. It's notaboutabrand,areputation,apersona.It'saboutreality.Whoyoureallyare.真正快樂(lè)成功的人會(huì)長(zhǎng)成最好最真實(shí)的自己——從內(nèi)心而非外表上。重要的不是品牌、名譽(yù)或者外表形象，而是真實(shí)的自我。Soundssimple,Iknow.Itisasimpleconcept.Theproblemis,it'sveryhardtodo,ittakesalotofwork,anditcantakealifetimetofigureitout.道理很簡(jiǎn)單，講出來(lái)也很容易。但問(wèn)題是，做起來(lái)就不簡(jiǎn)單了：這需要付諸很多努力，甚或一輩子才能實(shí)現(xiàn)。Nothingworthdoinginlifeisevereasy.Ifyouwanttodogreatwork,it'sgoingtotakealotofhardworktodoit.Andyou'regoingtohavetobreakoutofyourfortzoneandtakesomechancesthatwillscarethecrapoutofyou.需要窮盡畢生精力的事情必定不容易。 成大事者必先苦其心志。因此，你必須走出舒適區(qū)，去經(jīng)歷、去體驗(yàn)?zāi)切?huì)讓你害怕的機(jī)會(huì)。Butyouknow,Ican'tthinkofabetterwaytospendyourlife.Imean,what'slifeforifnotfindingyourselfandtryingtobeethebest,mostgenuineversionofyouthatyoucanbe?況且，人這一輩子，若到頭來(lái)都認(rèn)不清自己、未能長(zhǎng)成最好最真實(shí)的自己，還有什么意義呢 ?That'swhatSteveJobsmeantwhenhesaidthisataStanfordUniversitymencementspeech:正如史蒂夫-喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)的畢業(yè)典禮上所言：Yourtimeislimited,sodon'twasteitlivingsomeoneelse'slife.Don'tletthenoiseofothers'opinionsdrownoutyourowninnervoice.時(shí)間寶貴，不要虛擲光陰過(guò)著他人的生活。不要讓周遭的聒噪言論蒙蔽你內(nèi)心的聲音。Youhavetotrustthatthedotswillsomehowconnectinyourfuture.Youhavetotrustinsomething--yourgut,destiny,life,karma,whatever.Thisapproachhasneverletmedown,andithasmadeallthedifferenceinmylife.你要相信，生活中的偶然冥冥中也能指引未來(lái)。你要心懷信念——相信你的直覺(jué)、命運(yùn)、生活抑或因緣。這個(gè)方法一直給我力量，促使我過(guò)得卓然不同。Theonlywaytodogreatworkistolovewhatyoudo.Ifyouhaven'tfoundityet,keeplooking.Don'tsettle.成大事的唯一途徑就是做自己喜歡的事情。若你還沒(méi)找到，那就繼續(xù)追尋吧，不要停下來(lái)。Now,let'sforamomentberealisticaboutthis.Insightfulasthatadvicemaybe,itsoundsalittletooamorphousandchallengingtoresonatewithtoday'squick-fixculture.Thesedays,ifyoucan'ttellpeopleexactlywhattodoandhowtodoit,itfallsondeafears.現(xiàn)在我們來(lái)實(shí)際一點(diǎn)：建議或許很深刻，但聽(tīng)完卻讓人無(wú)從著手，難以運(yùn)用到當(dāng)今的快節(jié)奏文化中。現(xiàn)如今，如果一個(gè)建議講不清具體做什么、該怎么做的話，那么說(shuō)了也等于白說(shuō)。Notonlythat,butwhatJobswastalkingabout,whatI'mtalkingabout,requiresfocusanddiscipline,twothingsthatareveryhardtoebythesedays.Why?Because,focusanddisciplinearehard.It'ssomucheasiertogiveintodistractionandinstantgratification.Easyandaddictive.不僅如此，喬布斯的講話和我要說(shuō)的話都需要集中和自制——這兩個(gè)品質(zhì)在當(dāng)今社會(huì)非常難能可貴。何以見(jiàn)得 ?因?yàn)榧泻妥灾贫疾蝗菀鬃龅健Ｈ藗兒苋菀追稚⒆⒁饬?、尋求即時(shí)快感——舒服且容易上癮。Togiveyoualittleincentivetotakeonthechallenge,toembarkontheroadtoself-discovery,herearethreehugebenefitsfromworkingtobeethebest,mostgenuineversionofyourself.為激勵(lì)你迎接挑戰(zhàn)、踏上尋求自我的旅途，我列出了成為最好最真實(shí)自己后的三大益處：It will makeyouhappy.Getting toknowyourself will makeyoufeelmorefortableinyourownskin.Itwillreduceyourstressandanxiety. Itwill makeyouabetter spouse,abetterparent, abetter friend. It will