中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比Week7中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比Week71中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比中西家庭倫理精神中西婚姻中西節(jié)日中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比中西家庭倫理精神2家庭倫理的基本精神家庭本位:中國傳統(tǒng)的家族私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上的宗法人倫秩序所要求的家庭倫理的基本精神是家庭本位,即一切以家庭利益為重,個(gè)人必須無條件地服從家庭利益。第一,家庭私有財(cái)產(chǎn)制,個(gè)人沒有財(cái)產(chǎn)統(tǒng)理權(quán)。第二,婚姻是家庭的事情,個(gè)人沒有婚姻自主權(quán)。個(gè)人本位:西方傳統(tǒng)個(gè)體私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上的靠商品交換和契約關(guān)系所形成的西方家庭倫理精神是以個(gè)人為本位,一切以個(gè)人利益為中心,家庭利益服從個(gè)人利益。第一,個(gè)人有財(cái)產(chǎn)權(quán)。第二,個(gè)人有婚姻自主權(quán)。家庭倫理的基本精神家庭本位:中國傳統(tǒng)的家族私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上3家庭本位和個(gè)人本位家庭本位從根本上來說,這是由自給自足的自然經(jīng)濟(jì)所決定的。首先,小農(nóng)經(jīng)濟(jì)決定了家庭生產(chǎn)是社會(huì)生產(chǎn)的基本方式。其次,家庭是人們主要的活動(dòng)場所。再次,家庭是人們的情感和精神支柱。個(gè)人本位商業(yè)貿(mào)易的發(fā)達(dá)優(yōu)越的交通條件,發(fā)達(dá)的商品經(jīng)濟(jì)和海上貿(mào)易,不利于形成古希臘社會(huì)中的血緣親族組織。上帝面前人人平等的思想是建立在承認(rèn)個(gè)性、發(fā)展個(gè)性的基礎(chǔ)上的。家庭本位和個(gè)人本位家庭本位4中西婚姻對(duì)比婚禮儀式的不同中國傳統(tǒng)婚禮儀式一拜天地:尊崇天地二拜高堂:上下尊卑的格局

夫妻對(duì)拜:雙方的認(rèn)同西方神證婚禮儀式(協(xié)議\契約)我愿意婚姻基礎(chǔ)的不同中西婚姻對(duì)比婚禮儀式的不同5婚禮儀式ThePurposeofChristianMarriageLegalDeclarationsPrayerGivingofthebridebyherfatherorfriendThePromisesTheVows(Legalrequirement)TheGivingoftheRingorRingsDeclaration婚禮儀式ThePurposeofChristianM61.ThePurposeofChristianMarriage“WearegatheredhereinthepresenceofGodtocelebratetheweddingofAandBtorejoicewiththem,andtosupportthemwithourprayers.”O(jiān)rInthepresenceofGod,theFather,SonandHolySpirit,wehavecometogethertowitnessthemarriageofAandB,toprayforGod'sblessingonthem,tosharetheirjoyandtocelebratetheirlove.1.ThePurposeofChristianMa72.LegalDeclarationsMinistersays:“Ifanyknowofanyreasonwhy[fullnameofthebridegroom]and[fullnameofthebride]maynotlawfullybemarriedtoeachother,letthemnowdeclareit.”Bridegroomsays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebridegroom],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbride].”TheBridesays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebride],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbridegroom].”2.LegalDeclarationsMinister83.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyandeternal,sourceoflifeandspringoflove,wethankandpraiseyouforbringingAandBtothisday,andweprayforthem.Lordoflifeandlove:Maytheirmarriagebelife-givingandlife-long,enrichedbyyourpresenceandstrengthenedbyyourgrace;maytheybringcomfortandconfidencetoeachotherinfaithfulnessandtrust.Lordoflifeandlove:Maythehospitalityoftheirhomebringrefreshmentandjoytoallaroundthem.3.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyan94.Givingofthebridebyherfatherorfriend

“AIgivemydaughterBfreelytoyou.Ichargeyoutocareforher,loveherandprotectherandmakeprovisionforher.Willyoukeepheralwaysasthefirstloveinyourlife?Doyousopromise?TheBridegroomresponds,“Iwill”.4.Givingofthebridebyher105.ThePromisesTheministeraskstheBridegroom:“A,willyoutakeBtobeyourwifeinChristianmarriage?Willyouloveher,comforther,honourandprotecther,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultoheraslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridegroomreplies:“Iwill.”TheministersaystotheBride:“B,willyoutakeAtobeyourhusbandinChristianmarriage?Willyoulovehim,comforthim,honourandprotecthim,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultohimaslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridereplies:“Iwill.”5.ThePromisesTheministeras116.TheVows(Legalrequirement)

TheBridegroom/Bridesays:“IcalluponthesepersonsherepresenttowitnessthatI,[Fullnameofthebridegroom/Bride],dotakethee,[Fullnameofbride/bridegroom]tobemylawfulweddedwife/husbandinaccordancewithGod'sholywill,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherishtilldeathusdopart.ThisismyfaithfulpromiseandinthepresenceofGodImakethisvow.”新郎/新娘

我希望在座的各位見證，我_____，娶你______，做我的合法妻子/丈夫。我愿對(duì)你承諾，從今天開始，無論是順境或是逆境，富有或貧窮，健康或疾病，我將永遠(yuǎn)愛你、珍惜你直到地老天長。我當(dāng)著上帝的面做此忠實(shí)的承諾。

6.TheVows(Legalrequirement127.TheGivingoftheRingorRings“GodourFather,fromalleternityyouloveus;LordJesusChrist,inloveyoucameamongus;HolySpirit,yougaveusloveasyourgreatestgift.Blessthegivingandreceivingofthisring/theserings,symbol(s)ofunendingloveandfaithfulnessandreminder(s)ofthepromisesmadethisday.WeaskitinyourNamewhichisaboveeveryName,theNameofJesus.Amen.”7.TheGivingoftheRingorR138.Declaration

Theministerjoinstheirrighthandstogetherandaddressesthecongregation.AandBhavedeclaredbeforeGodandbeforeyouthattheywilllivetogetherinChristianmarriage;theyhavemadesacredpromisestoeachother,andhavesymbolisedtheirmarriagetodaybyjoininghandsandbythegivingandreceivingofaring/rings.IthereforebytheauthoritygrantedtomeasaministerofJesusChristIpronouncethemtobehusbandandwife,inthenameofGod,theFather,Son,andHolySpirit.WhomGodhasjoinedtogether,letnooneseparate.Amen.8.Declaration

Theministerj14中西方婚姻的基礎(chǔ)中國的婚姻以生育為基礎(chǔ),西方的婚姻以性愛為基礎(chǔ)。中國婚姻重家庭責(zé)任,西方婚姻重個(gè)人感情。西方人結(jié)婚,是個(gè)人的權(quán)利,中國人結(jié)婚,卻是家庭的一種義務(wù)。中西方婚姻的基礎(chǔ)中國的婚姻以生育為基礎(chǔ),西方的婚姻以性愛為基15PrideParadesPrideparadesfortheLGBTcommunityareeventscelebratinglesbian,gay,bisexual,andtransgender(LGBT)culture.Theeventsalsoattimesserveasdemonstrationsforlegalrightssuchassame-sexmarriage.PrideParadesPrideparadesfor16中西節(jié)日比較中國傳統(tǒng)節(jié)日源遠(yuǎn)流長、絢麗多姿,如春節(jié)、元宵節(jié)、清明節(jié)、端午節(jié)、七夕節(jié)、中秋節(jié)、重陽節(jié)等。這些節(jié)日是社會(huì)發(fā)展到一定階段,人類群體在社會(huì)生活中約定俗成的產(chǎn)物,與天文、歷法、民族思維方式、民間信仰、文化心理等有著密不可分的關(guān)系。西方的傳統(tǒng)節(jié)日大多是建立在宗教尤其是基督教文化之上的。從英語辭源學(xué)上看,“節(jié)日”(holiday/holyday)一詞本來就是“神的日子”,或者“獻(xiàn)身宗教的日子”。中西節(jié)日比較中國傳統(tǒng)節(jié)日源遠(yuǎn)流長、絢麗多姿,如春節(jié)、元宵節(jié)、17中西節(jié)日的差別一、節(jié)日娛樂中狂歡的內(nèi)斂與狂放二、宗教信仰的世俗化與神圣化三、集體意識(shí)與個(gè)性追求四、飲食文化與精神文化中西節(jié)日的差別一、節(jié)日娛樂中狂歡的內(nèi)斂與狂放18中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比Week7中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比Week719中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比中西家庭倫理精神中西婚姻中西節(jié)日中西風(fēng)俗禮儀對(duì)比中西家庭倫理精神20家庭倫理的基本精神家庭本位:中國傳統(tǒng)的家族私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上的宗法人倫秩序所要求的家庭倫理的基本精神是家庭本位,即一切以家庭利益為重,個(gè)人必須無條件地服從家庭利益。第一,家庭私有財(cái)產(chǎn)制,個(gè)人沒有財(cái)產(chǎn)統(tǒng)理權(quán)。第二,婚姻是家庭的事情,個(gè)人沒有婚姻自主權(quán)。個(gè)人本位:西方傳統(tǒng)個(gè)體私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上的靠商品交換和契約關(guān)系所形成的西方家庭倫理精神是以個(gè)人為本位,一切以個(gè)人利益為中心,家庭利益服從個(gè)人利益。第一,個(gè)人有財(cái)產(chǎn)權(quán)。第二,個(gè)人有婚姻自主權(quán)。家庭倫理的基本精神家庭本位:中國傳統(tǒng)的家族私有制及其基礎(chǔ)上21家庭本位和個(gè)人本位家庭本位從根本上來說,這是由自給自足的自然經(jīng)濟(jì)所決定的。首先,小農(nóng)經(jīng)濟(jì)決定了家庭生產(chǎn)是社會(huì)生產(chǎn)的基本方式。其次,家庭是人們主要的活動(dòng)場所。再次,家庭是人們的情感和精神支柱。個(gè)人本位商業(yè)貿(mào)易的發(fā)達(dá)優(yōu)越的交通條件,發(fā)達(dá)的商品經(jīng)濟(jì)和海上貿(mào)易,不利于形成古希臘社會(huì)中的血緣親族組織。上帝面前人人平等的思想是建立在承認(rèn)個(gè)性、發(fā)展個(gè)性的基礎(chǔ)上的。家庭本位和個(gè)人本位家庭本位22中西婚姻對(duì)比婚禮儀式的不同中國傳統(tǒng)婚禮儀式一拜天地:尊崇天地二拜高堂:上下尊卑的格局

夫妻對(duì)拜:雙方的認(rèn)同西方神證婚禮儀式(協(xié)議\契約)我愿意婚姻基礎(chǔ)的不同中西婚姻對(duì)比婚禮儀式的不同23婚禮儀式ThePurposeofChristianMarriageLegalDeclarationsPrayerGivingofthebridebyherfatherorfriendThePromisesTheVows(Legalrequirement)TheGivingoftheRingorRingsDeclaration婚禮儀式ThePurposeofChristianM241.ThePurposeofChristianMarriage“WearegatheredhereinthepresenceofGodtocelebratetheweddingofAandBtorejoicewiththem,andtosupportthemwithourprayers.”O(jiān)rInthepresenceofGod,theFather,SonandHolySpirit,wehavecometogethertowitnessthemarriageofAandB,toprayforGod'sblessingonthem,tosharetheirjoyandtocelebratetheirlove.1.ThePurposeofChristianMa252.LegalDeclarationsMinistersays:“Ifanyknowofanyreasonwhy[fullnameofthebridegroom]and[fullnameofthebride]maynotlawfullybemarriedtoeachother,letthemnowdeclareit.”Bridegroomsays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebridegroom],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbride].”TheBridesays,“IdosolemnlydeclarethatIknownotofanylawfulimpedimentwhyI,[fullnameofthebride],maynotbejoinedinmatrimonyto[fullnameofbridegroom].”2.LegalDeclarationsMinister263.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyandeternal,sourceoflifeandspringoflove,wethankandpraiseyouforbringingAandBtothisday,andweprayforthem.Lordoflifeandlove:Maytheirmarriagebelife-givingandlife-long,enrichedbyyourpresenceandstrengthenedbyyourgrace;maytheybringcomfortandconfidencetoeachotherinfaithfulnessandtrust.Lordoflifeandlove:Maythehospitalityoftheirhomebringrefreshmentandjoytoallaroundthem.3.PrayerFaithfulGod,onlyan274.Givingofthebridebyherfatherorfriend

“AIgivemydaughterBfreelytoyou.Ichargeyoutocareforher,loveherandprotectherandmakeprovisionforher.Willyoukeepheralwaysasthefirstloveinyourlife?Doyousopromise?TheBridegroomresponds,“Iwill”.4.Givingofthebridebyher285.ThePromisesTheministeraskstheBridegroom:“A,willyoutakeBtobeyourwifeinChristianmarriage?Willyouloveher,comforther,honourandprotecther,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultoheraslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridegroomreplies:“Iwill.”TheministersaystotheBride:“B,willyoutakeAtobeyourhusbandinChristianmarriage?Willyoulovehim,comforthim,honourandprotecthim,intimesofprosperityandhealth,andintimesoftroubleandsuffering,andbefaithfultohimaslongasyoubothshalllive?”TheBridereplies:“Iwill.”5.ThePromisesTheministeras296.TheVows(Legalrequirement)

TheBridegroom/Bridesays:“IcalluponthesepersonsherepresenttowitnessthatI,[Fullnameofthebridegroom/Bride],dotakethee,[Fullnameofbride/bridegroom]tobemylawfulweddedwife/husbandinaccordancewithGod'sholywill,tohaveandtoholdfromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessandinhealth,toloveandtocherishtilldeathusdopart.ThisismyfaithfulpromiseandinthepresenceofGodImakethisvow.”新郎/新娘

我希望在座的各位見證，我_____，娶你______，做我的合法妻子/丈夫。我愿對(duì)你承諾，從今天開始，無論是順境或是逆境，富有或貧窮，健康或疾病，我將永遠(yuǎn)愛你、珍惜你直到地老天長。我當(dāng)著上帝的面做此忠實(shí)的承諾。

6.TheVows(Legalrequirement307.TheGivingoftheRingorRings“GodourFather,fromalleternityyouloveus;LordJesusChrist,inloveyoucameamongus;HolySpirit,yougaveusloveasyourgreatestgift.Blessthegivingandreceivingofthisring/theserings,symbol(s)ofunendingloveandfaithfulnessandreminder(s)ofthepromisesmadethisday.WeaskitinyourNamewhichisaboveeveryName,theNameofJesus.Amen.”7.TheGivingoftheRingorR318.Declaration

Theministerjoinstheirrighthandstogetherandaddressesthecongregation.AandBhavedeclaredbeforeGodandbeforeyouthattheywill