LoveandMarriage大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第1頁1/34【HappyAprilFools'Day】April1isnotanationalholiday,butiswidelyrecognizedandcelebratedasadaywhenpeopleplaypracticaljokesandhoaxesoneachother.大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第2頁2/34What’slove?"Lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou'resorry."----LoveStory大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第3頁3/34WhatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourBForGF?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors…大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第4頁4/34Thesweetestthingsyoucandoforagirlarethelittlethingsthatletherknowshe'sinyourheart&onyourmind.你能為一個女孩兒做最甜蜜事，就是從細枝末節(jié)中讓她知道，你一直想著她，念著她。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第5頁5/34Wesometimesignorethosewhoadoreus,adorethosewhoignoreus,lovethosewhohurtus,andhurtthosewholoveus.我們有時無視喜愛自己人，卻喜愛無視我們人；愛上傷害我們人，卻去傷害愛著我們人。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第6頁6/34Theonewhotrulyloveswilldefinitelyneverleaveyou.Thoughhehasthousandsofreasonstogiveyouup,hewouldalwaysfindonetohangon.真正愛你人絕不會離開你。他縱有千百個理由放棄，卻也總會找一個理由堅持下去。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第7頁7/34We’dfadeintosomeoneatleastonetimeinlife，notforanyresult,company,ownershipevenlove，justformeetingyouinmymostbeautifuldays.-----一生最少該有一次，為了某個人而忘了自己，不求有結果，不求同行，不求曾經擁有，甚至不求你愛我。只求在我最美年華里，碰到你。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第8頁8/34我捧你時候，你是玻璃杯子。我松手時候，你是玻璃渣子。WhenIloveyou,youareadelicateglassheldinmyhands.

WhenIleaveyou,youarebrokenglassscatteredontheground.大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第9頁9/34【各種love】deep~深深愛;chaste~貞潔愛;devoted~專一愛;loyal~忠誠愛;tender~溫柔愛;sincere~真摯愛;fervent~熱烈愛;burning~熾熱愛;intense~強烈愛;wild~狂熱愛;~atfirstsight一見鐘情;~story愛情故事;~triangle三角戀愛;~affair風流韻事。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第10頁10/34【各種戀】初戀PuppyLove/FirstLove，單戀/暗戀unrequitedlove，暗戀haveacrushon,網戀Internetlove,熱戀honeymoonphase,苦戀bitterlove,師生戀teacher-studentlove,同性戀homosexuality['h?m??,seksj?'?l?t?],三角戀lovetriangle,夕陽戀sunsetlove,雙性戀bisexuality[ba?sek?u'?l?ti],姐弟戀toyboylove大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第11頁11/34【搭訕佳句】1.YoulooklikesomeoneIknow.Haven'twemetbefore?你跟我一個朋友長得好象。我們之前見過吧?2.That‘sagreathaircut.你發(fā)型很不錯。3.Areyouherealone?一個人嗎?4.Ilostmynumber,canIhaveyours?我把我電話號碼弄丟了，你能夠把你告訴我嗎?大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第12頁12/34【“名花/草有主了”怎么表示】比較常見表示有bespokenfor或betaken，指已經有些人擁有全部權已被預訂。She'salreadytaken.她已經有男朋友了?；蛘哒foffthemarket例：Yo,dude.You'dbetterquitchasingafterher.She'soffthemarket.老兄，你最好別追她了，她已經名花有主了。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第13頁13/34【怎樣用語英語表示你現在感情狀態(tài)】1.single單身；2.inarelationship戀愛中；3.engaged已訂婚；4.married已婚；5.inanopenrelationship開放式關系；6.widowed['wid?ud]喪偶；7.separated['s?p?ret?d]分居狀態(tài)；8.divorced[d?'v?rst]已離異；9.domestic[d?'m?st?k]partnership未婚同居關系；10.CivilUnion同性婚姻

大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第14頁14/34【分手理由】1.I‘vemetsomeoneelse./There‘ssomeoneelse.我另結新歡了。2.You’rereallytoogoodforme./Idon‘tdeserveyou.我配不上你。3.Ijustdon‘tloveyouanymore.我不愛你了。4.Ireallydon’twannabetieddown.我不想被束縛。5.Themagic'sgonefromourrelationship.我們之間愛情魔力已經不見了。大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第15頁15/34It‘sover.我們緣分已盡。We‘renotmeantforeachother.我們命中注定不適合。Ineedsometimealone.我需要一個人過一陣子。We'rebetteroffasfriends.我們做朋友比很好大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第16頁16/34【wedding】求婚:proposal媒人:matchmaker訂婚:engagement未婚夫:fiance[fi'ɑ?nse]未婚妻:fiancee[,fi?n'se]婚宴:weddingfeast婚紗:weddinggown新郎:groom新娘:bride男儐相:bestman女儐相:bridesmaid證婚人:witnessofwedding婚誓:weddingvows花童:flowergirl嫁妝:dowry['da?ri]蜜月:honeymoon大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第17頁17/34Marriage再婚:remarry重婚:bigamy['b?ɡ?mi]試婚:trialmarriage包辦婚姻:arrangedmarriage近親結婚:intermarriage老少配:MayandDecembermarriage如意郎君:Mr.Right閃婚:flashmarriage一夫一妻:monogamy[m?'nɑɡ?mi]

離婚:divorce大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第18頁18/34Haveyoueverattendedawedding?Howdoyouthinkaboutit?Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bride新娘bridegroom(groom)新郎groomsman(bestman)伴郎bridesmaid伴娘weddingceremony結婚儀式weddinginvitation婚禮請柬churchwedding教堂婚禮

traditionalChinesewedding傳統(tǒng)中式婚禮outdoorwedding戶外婚禮weddingreception婚宴weddingdress婚紗、結婚禮服Weddingmarch婚禮進行曲honeymoon蜜月大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第19頁19/34【“我不嫁給你”各種惡搞說法】高中水平:Iwillnevermarryyou.高考:NeverwillImarryyou.四級:YouarethelastmanIamwillingtomarry.六級:UndernocircumstanceswillImarryyou.GRE:Ifyouwerethelastmanintheworld,Iwoulddefinitelyremainsingle.大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第20頁20/34I______,takeyou______,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessorinhealth,toloveandtocherish,‘tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.Weddingvows大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第21頁21/34WeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第22頁22/34ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120,000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip…)

What’youropiniononthehugecostofawedding?大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第23頁23/34FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第24頁24/34Differentunderstandingofloveandmarriage

betweenChineseandWesterners…

West

ChinaAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackgroundsocialrelations“Marryyourmatch”Love＞Marriage

↓HighdivorcerateMarriage＞LoveMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesDescriptionofadate:Pretty,cute,smart,humorous…

Descriptionofadate:Height,Occupation,Educationbackground,Family…LoveatfirstsighttransientTimebreedslove.

LastlongIndependencyineconomyandthought

Alliscommon./ShareeverythingTotalequalityHousehusbandMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehome

大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第25頁25/34MarryYou---BrunoMars大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第26頁26/34Ifyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussion大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第27頁27/34Debating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveTheclaim(theProposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoregoodthanharm.Referencearguments:toenrichthelifeexperience;topromotethegrowthofyourmind;tosupporteachother;pureenvironment/withoutinterference;plentyoftimeformutualunderstanding;easiertofindtruelove;firmemotionalfoundationhappyrecollections;...大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第28頁28/34Debating:

CollegestudentsfallinginloveThecounterclaim(theOpposition):

Collegeloveaffairwilldomoreharmthangood.

Arguments:Financialburden;Interferewiththestudy(time-consuming);Immaturethoughts;Uncertainfuture;Practicalproblems(jobs,location,family)…

大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第29頁29/34Someusefulexpressionforadebateinmyopinion…我意見是……I’dliketopointoutthat我想指出是……PersonallyIthink……我個人認為……thepointisthat……關鍵是……,關鍵點是.....Ibelievethat……我相信……inmyexperience…依據我經驗……butwhatabout…？但關于……方面呢？大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第30頁30/34whatImeantosaywas…我意思是說……I’mafraididisagree.恐怕我是持反對意見。Idon’tthinkso.我不那樣認為。onthecontrary.相反。allright，butdon’tyouthink…？好吧，但莫非你不認為……that’sagoodpoint.這個看法不錯。that’snot（entirely）true.那不（完全）正確。well…whatdoyouthink（about…）？…你認為怎么樣？letmerephrasewhatIsaid.讓我重申剛才所說大學英語口語loveandmarriage課件第31頁31/34Storyreproduction

Afarmerwholivedinasmallvillagesufferedfromaseverepaininthechest.Thisneverseemedtogetanybetter.Thefarmereventuallydecidedthathewouldconsultadoctorinthenearesttown.Butashewasamiserlypersonhethoughthewouldfindoutwhathewouldhavetopaythisdoctor.Hewastoldthatapatienthadtopaythreepoundsf