Good evening ,Ladies and Gentlemen: Thank you very much for choosing to come in such a cold night.Today my topic is about choice and process.A research shows that a man has to make 73 choices one day.With so many choices one day, people easily get so confused and afraid of making wrong choice that they hesitate and finally miss the true part of life. In my opinion, the following part is of much more importance than the choice. There is no absolute right or wrong choice but wonderful or boring life, which the process makes the difference.Life is a box of chocolate,you never know what you will get. Forrest Gump made no decision by and for himself but he accomplished great success with his strong will in the process. The process is not the road itself but the attitudes and feelings ,the caution, courage and persistance we have as we encounter new experience and unexpected obstacles. Take myself as an example, I changed my major when I became a postgraduate. After the choice,days have been harsh for me.I cannot understand the new lessons at all. For they are closely related to mathmatics which I learned nothing about before. However wuth the belief that this is the great chance for me to experience new ideas and challenge myself,I persisted. I asked for help from every channel and reorgonized my life. Gradually I could understand some parts and even found maths interesting.Moreover, I learned to act instead of complaining. In retrospect,the choice left no trace in my mind but the happiness and bitterness of the past four months becomes an unforgetable experience in my life.NO matter what the choice is, enjoy the process. In the process, your potential will be inspired and new discoveries,improvement and progress will come to you. These are the most beautiful sceneries and only on the way can you see it.These make your life colorful.There is no need and I donnot want to judge whether it right or wrong for me to be here,but I congratulate to myself for I gain and enjoy this fantastic experience. So my dear friends,never worry about your choice and enjoy the process. I am sure you will get something new and intersting tonight after you chose to come here. Thank you!WeAreTheWorld,WeAreTheFuture Someonesaid“wearereadingthefirstverseofthefirstchapterofabook,whosepagesareinfinite”.Idontknowwhowrotethesewords,butIvealwayslikedthemasareminderthatthefuturecanbeanythingwewantittobe.Weareallinthepositionofthefarmers.Ifweplantagoodseed,wereapagoodharvest.Ifweplantnothingatall,weharvestnothingatall.Weareyoung.“Howtospendtheyouth?”Itisameaningfulquestion.Toanswerit,firstIhavetoask“whatdoyouunderstandbythewordyouth?”Youthisnotatimeoflife,itsastateofmind.Itsnotamatterofrosycheeks,redlipsorsuppleknees.Itsthematterofthewill.Itsthefreshnessofthedeepspringoflife.Apoetsaid“Toseeaworldinagrainofsand,andaheaveninawildflower,holdinfinityinthepalmofyourhand,andeternityinanhour.Severaldaysago,Ihadachancetolistentoalecture.Ilearntalotthere.Idliketoshareitwithallofyou.Letsshowourrightpalms.Wecanseethreelinesthatshowhowourlove.careerandlifeis.Ihaveashortlineoflife.Whataboutyours?Iwonderedwhetherwecouldseeourfutureinthisway.Well,letsmakeafist.Whereisourfuture?Whereisourlove,career,andlife?Tellme.Yeah,itisinourhands.Itisheldinourselves.Weallwantthefuturetobebetterthanthepast.Butthefuturecangobetteritself.Dontcrybecauseitisover,smilebecauseithappened.Fromthepast,wevelearntthatthelifeistough,butwearetougher.Wevelearntthatwecantchoosehowwefeel,butwecanchoosewhataboutit.Failuredoesntmeanyoudonthaveit,itdoesmeanyoushoulddoitinadifferentway.Failuredoesntmeanyoushouldgiveup,itdoesmeanyoumusttryharder.AswhatIsaidatthebeginning,“wearereadingthefirstverseofthefirstchapterofabook,whosepagesareinfinite”.Thepasthasgone.Nothingwedowillchangeit.Butthefutureisinfrontofus.Believethatwhatwegivetotheworld,theworldwillgivetous.Andfromtodayon,letsbetheownersofourselves,andspeakout“Wearetheworld,wearethefuture.一夜悲雨相思涼，獨(dú)守白晝等天荒，秋風(fēng)一辭無景音，在世尋訪掌難明，走在東方若谷的刻薄心語，繞來心中相思布景，華麗的臉龐，獨(dú)自去憂傷，憂不能減去心中的亂，而傷不能疊加再次相遇。一個(gè)人久了，除了寂寞點(diǎn)還是蠻開心的。一個(gè)人久了，會(huì)慢慢變得成熟起來。一個(gè)人久了，會(huì)比以前更愛父母。一個(gè)人久了，對所有的節(jié)日大多沒什么期待。一個(gè)人久了，聽到看到別人一對對的很甜蜜，心里多少還是會(huì)有些介意。一個(gè)人久了，會(huì)越來越理性，越來越現(xiàn)實(shí)。人們說深海的魚不懂傷悲，所以不流淚，可有多少人知道，那是因?yàn)樗恢贝粼谏钌畹暮５?，她的眼淚你看不見而已一個(gè)人心里都有那么一段故事，無法述說。其實(shí)，很多故事不必說給每個(gè)人聽。當(dāng)做是一段記憶，傷感卻也美麗。不是你做的不夠好。所以，不要悲憫的以為自己一事無成。不是只有你一個(gè)人在努力。所以，不要輕易的就放棄。不是愛你的只有你自己。所以，不要以為他們拋棄了你。別 著急愛，天也沒荒地也沒老，時(shí)間還早。別著急恨，海不會(huì)枯石不會(huì)爛，還有明天。一生時(shí)間雖短促，可你要把自己扔進(jìn)洪荒里，用高高的理想，低低的走，慢慢地 活，別再著急恨，別再著急愛，在你自己的心里，你原本是個(gè)小孩子，毫無猶豫的付出，毫無防備的受傷，毫不遲疑的復(fù)原愛情，不過就是一張寫滿了字跡的白紙，撕開了就永遠(yuǎn)無法再回到原來的樣子，有些事情，適合放在心里，都說相見不如懷念，真的是這樣，許多事情過去了就過去了，再多的不甘和埋怨也都成為了故事。常常一個(gè)人靜靜的呆在一個(gè)角落，不想被各種繁雜所驚擾，給心足夠的呼吸。寧靜，凝固了歲月，靜止了時(shí)間，品味孤獨(dú)帶來的淡淡憂傷。孤獨(dú)是靈與肉的交匯，孤獨(dú)是凈化心靈的唯美。孤獨(dú)讓我們靜下心來思考人情的冷暖、生命的真誠。我們身邊的朋友，曾經(jīng)的校園鴛鴦，如今有幾對還能夠長相廝守，還仍是彼此緊握十指的唯一。當(dāng)初的誓言也如過往云煙般消失不見，偶爾想起只會(huì)傻傻一笑，原來，當(dāng)初我們?nèi)绱说奶煺?，如此的稚嫩。未眠的夜晚、總愛幻想那些不?huì)走路的日子、沒有悲哀、真正的沒有悲哀?？墒茄姥缹W(xué)語的年代、我們像白紙般度過、又會(huì)有幾人記得。我是會(huì)走下去的，在一路高歌地走下去。不管是怎么樣的錯(cuò)肩而過，我都不在意。你我終究都成陌上行者，相愛的結(jié)局，只落得一季花開、滿地憂傷?；蛟S，我是你前世遺落的一滴淚，你無法拾起，歲月也不曾風(fēng)干；或許，一切的一切，都只是曾經(jīng)的一段明媚時(shí)光，是宿命的使然，無法逃脫，也無法改變。我以為，放下所有的執(zhí)念，放下所有的糾纏，就不會(huì)有淚，就可以不再孤單一個(gè)，就可以不再漂泊，就可以面朝大海，等待春暖花開，可是又怎知，欲想忘卻，卻偏難忘卻。最終擱淺了韶華，思念成灰。故知情，寫滿離恨，誰飲下無知，不知何處是月明，筆連意，墨哀情，斜陽暮西歸，誰在荒涼的余輝下，凄然