Unit3GettingalongwithothersThegloryoffriendshipisnottheoutstretchedhand,northekindlysmile,nor

thejoyofcompanionship;itisthespiritualinspirationthatcomestoonewhen

hediscoversthatsomeoneelsebelievesinhimandiswillingtotrusthim.

—RalphWaldoEmerson

友誼的光輝不在于伸出的雙手，不在于親切的微笑，也不在于相伴的喜悅;

當(dāng)一個(gè)人發(fā)現(xiàn)別人相信他并愿意信任他時(shí)，他就會(huì)受到精神上的鼓舞。

——拉爾夫·沃爾多·愛(ài)默生LearningObejectives?readaforumexchangeaboutafriendshipintrouble;?writeadiaryentryaboutthequalitiesofagoodfriend;?readanessayonfriendship;?makeascrapbookaboutfriendship.讀一個(gè)論壇交流關(guān)于一段友誼的煩惱;寫(xiě)一篇關(guān)于一個(gè)好朋友的品質(zhì)讀一篇關(guān)于友誼的文章;制作一個(gè)關(guān)于友誼的剪貼簿。ThinkaboutitWhatfriendshipproblemshaveyouhad?Shareyourexperience.MybestfriendandIhavebeencloseforeightyears.WhenIwasanawkwardprimaryschoolstudent,shewasthepopulargirlwhowaswillingtomakefriendswithme.我和我最好的朋友相處了8年.當(dāng)我還是一個(gè)笨拙的小學(xué)生時(shí),他是一個(gè)愿意和我交朋友的受歡迎的女孩? anawkwardprimaryschoolstudent一個(gè)笨拙的小學(xué)生? bepopularwith為...我喜歡? bewillingtodosomething愿意做某事? makefriendswithsomebody和某人交朋友Sincethen,aclosefriendshiphasgrownbetweenusandshe’sbeenalmostlikeasistertome.Whetherwe’rewalkingtoschool,doinghomeworkorjusthangingoutattheweekend,we’rehardlyoutofeachother’ssight.從那時(shí)起，我們之間建立了親密的友誼，她一直就像我的姐妹一樣。不管我們是走路上學(xué)，做作業(yè)還是只是周末出去玩，我們幾乎沒(méi)有離開(kāi)過(guò)彼此的視線。? sincethen從那時(shí)起? aclosefriendship一段親密的友誼? likeasister像一個(gè)姐妹? walktoschool走到學(xué)校? dohomework做作業(yè)? hangout出去玩? attheweekend在周末等于atweekends? outofone’ssight離開(kāi)某人的視線ButlastSaturday,shebrokemyheart,andI’mstillpickingupthepieces.Ouroriginalplanwastoseeafilmatthecinemathatafternoon.Butinthemorning,myfriendpostedamessageonsocialmediasayingshehadacold.但去年周六，她傷了我的心，我還在收拾殘局。我們?cè)?jì)劃那天下午在電影院看電影。但到了早上，我的朋友在社交媒體上發(fā)了一條消息說(shuō)她感冒了。當(dāng)我打電話的時(shí)候她說(shuō)她可能去不了電影院了。breakone’sheart傷了某人的心pickupthepieces收拾殘局originalplan原計(jì)劃seeafilm看電影gotothecinema看電影onsocialmillion在社交媒體上haveacold感冒WhenIcalledher,shesaidshemightnotbeabletomakeittothecinema.“Don’tworry,”Isaid.“Getsomerest.Wecanwaittillyougetbetter.”Today,however,Ireceivedahorriblesurprise.AclassmatetoldmeshehadseenmyfriendchattingwithanothergirlinacaféonSaturdayafternoon.“別擔(dān)心，”我說(shuō)?！靶菹⒁幌掳?。我們可以等到你好起來(lái)?！比欢裉?，我收到了一個(gè)可怕的驚喜。一個(gè)同學(xué)告訴我她見(jiàn)過(guò)星期六下午，我的朋友在café和另一個(gè)女孩聊天? callsomebody給某人打電話? beableto能夠? makeitto及時(shí)趕到;到達(dá).? don'tworry別擔(dān)心? getsomerest休息一下? getbetter變的更好? chatwithsomebody與某人聊天HowstupidIwas!Myfriend’s“illness”wasacompletelie!Insteadofrecoveringathome,shewasouthavingfunwithsomeoneelse.IwassoangrythatIavoidedherduringschoolallday,andIstilldon’tfeellikerespondingtoanyofheronlinemessages.我是多么愚蠢!我朋友的“病”完全是一個(gè)謊言!她沒(méi)有在家養(yǎng)病，而是跟別人出去玩了。我當(dāng)時(shí)很生氣，整天都躲著她上學(xué)，我到現(xiàn)在都不覺(jué)得回復(fù)她的任何在線信息。? how加形容詞.表示感嘆句? acompletelie一個(gè)十足的謊言? havefundoingsomething做某事有樂(lè)趣? someoneelse其他人? soangry如此生氣? responseto回復(fù)? onlinemessages網(wǎng)上信息Thestressofthissituationiskillingme,andI’matalosswhattodonextI’msosorry!Butthisfriendshipisworthsaving:eightyearsisalongtime!這種情況下的壓力快把我壓死了，我不知道下一步該做什么我很抱歉!但這段友誼值得挽救:八年是很長(zhǎng)的一段時(shí)間!? beataloss茫然.? worthdoingsomething值得做某事Don’tbesoquicktojudgeyourfriend.Perhapssheknowsshe’sinthewrongandwantstoapologize,ormaybeshehasasimpleexplanationforherbehaviour.別急著評(píng)判你的朋友。也許她知道自己做錯(cuò)了，想要道歉，或者她對(duì)自己的行為有個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的解釋。? judge評(píng)判? wanttodosomething想要做某事? apologizefor道歉Inanycase,findanopportunitytohaveafullandfranktalkwithher.Listentowhatshehastosay,andbesuretoexplainhowyoufeel.I’msureyoucansolvethisproblemtogether無(wú)論如何，找個(gè)機(jī)會(huì)和她開(kāi)誠(chéng)布公地談一談。聽(tīng)聽(tīng)她有什么說(shuō)出來(lái)，一定要解釋你的感受。我相信你們能夠一起解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題? inanycase無(wú)論如何? haveafullandfranktalk開(kāi)誠(chéng)布公地談一談? listentosomebody聽(tīng)某人的? besuretodosomething確信做某事? solvethisproblemtogether一起解決這個(gè)問(wèn)題Idefinitelyunderstandhowyoufeel.IalsohadafriendwhomItrustedalot.WhenIfoundoutthatIwastrickedbyhim,Iwasreallyhurtandletgoofourfriendship.我完全理解你的受。我也有一個(gè)非常信任的朋友。當(dāng)我發(fā)現(xiàn)我被他欺騙了，我真的很受傷，并放開(kāi)了我們的友誼? trustsomebody信任某人? findout發(fā)現(xiàn)? betrickedby被欺騙? letgoof釋放,松手放開(kāi)Iknowyouvalueyourfriendshipandwantyourfriendtovalueitequally.However,ifyourfriendignoresyourfeelingsormakesyousuffer,it’stimetorethinkyourrelationship.我知道你珍惜你的友誼，也希望你的朋友珍惜它,同樣。然而，如果你的朋友忽視你的感受或讓你痛苦，那么是時(shí)候了重新思考你們的關(guān)系。? valueyourfriendship重視你的友誼? wantsomebodytodosomething想要某人做某事? ignoreyourfeelings忽略你的感受? makeyousuffer是讓你痛苦? it'stimetodosomething做某事的時(shí)間到了rethinkyourrelationship重新考慮你們的關(guān)系Talktoheranddecidewhetherthisfriendshipisstillimporta