Whydon’tyoutalktoyourparents?Unit41.說(shuō)到做家務(wù)，不同的人有不同的觀點(diǎn)。2.現(xiàn)在孩子們太依賴父母，他們需要培養(yǎng)獨(dú)立性。3.孩子很有必要學(xué)習(xí)一些生活技能以便于他們長(zhǎng)大后能照顧自己。4.毫無(wú)疑問(wèn)，從做家務(wù)中孩子們可以得到很多好處。1.Whenitcomestodoinghousework,differentpeoplehavedifferentopinions.2.Nowadays,childrendependontheirparentstoomuch.It’snecessarytodeveloptheirindependence.3.It’snecessaryforchildrentolearnsomelifeskillssothattheycanlookafterthemselveswhentheygrowup.4.Thereisnodoubtthatchildrencanbebefitalotfromdoingchores.5.一方面，通過(guò)做家務(wù)孩子們能理解公平的含義，另一方面，作為家庭一員，他們有義務(wù)做家務(wù)。6.孩子們?cè)皆绐?dú)立，對(duì)他們的未來(lái)越好。5.Ontheonehand,childrencanunderstandtheideaoffairnessbydoingchores.Ontheotherhand,asamemberofthefamily,it’stheirdutytodohousework.6.Theearlierkidslearntobeindependent,thebetteritisfortheirfuture.Whatproblemsdowehaveinourdailylife?AtschoolOutsideschoolhavetoomanyschoolrulesdon’tgetenoughsleeparguewithclassmateshavetoomuchhomeworkhavetoomanyafter-schoolclassesarguewithparentsgetintoafightwithbrothers/sistersProblemsfailtheexamshavetoomanyexamsdon’thavetimedothethingswelikeWhat’sthetroublewithhim?Hehastoomany__________________sohedoesn’thaveanyfreetimetodothingshelikes.after-schoolclassesWhat’swrongwithhim?toomuchhomeworkHehas_________________sohedoesn’tgetenoughsleep.What’stheboy’sproblem?fight

withhisbestfriend=have

afightwithhisbestfriend=getinto

afightwithhisbestfriendIhavetostudytoomuch,soIdon'tgetenoughsleepadvice:Whydon'tyouWhynotWhat

aboutYoucouldMaybeyoushouldYou'dbettergotosleepearliertonight?gotosleepearliertonight?goingtosleepearliertonight?gotosleepearliertonight?gotosleepearliertonight.gotosleepearliertonight.

Ihavetoomanyafter-schoolclasses.advice:Whydon'tyou...Whynot...Youcould...Maybeyoushould(not)You'dbetter(not)…What

about...talkaboutitwith

yourparentstalkingaboutitwith

yourparentsReport:

Ihaveagoodfriend,Sally.Thesedays,sheisundertoomuch...(press).Herparentswanthertobe..(.excellence)andgetintoatopuniversity.Shehastotaketoo...(much)after-schoolclasses.Andshelooks...(tire).Ithinkshehadbetterhaveafullunderstandingonpressureandtalktoherparents.Doyouagreewithme?fight

withmybestfriendAdvice:haveatalkwithhimwhenyouarecalmcallhimupandsaysorrytohimwritealettertohimifyouthinkit’sdifficulttosaysorryfacetoface

I’msorrytohearthat....letmegiveyousomeadvice.

Firstandforemost,you’dbetter....Thereisnodoubtthatcommunicationisthebestwaytosolveaproblem.What’smore,youcan....Asweallknow,it’snormaltohaveargumentsbetweenfriends.Lastbutnotleast,ifyouthink...youcan....

Hopemyadviceabovecanhelpyouout.Step2ListeningPractice1.Listening1b1）Whataretheytalkingabout?Theyaretalkingaboutthegirl’s_________andthe_____tosolveit.problemswaysListenandcircletheproblemsyouhearin1a.1b1.Ihavetostudyuntilreallylate,soIdon’tgetenoughsleep.2.IhavetoomuchhomeworksoIdon’thaveanyfreetimetodothingsIlike.3.Myparentsdon’tallowmetohangoutwithmyfriends.4.Ihavetotakemorelessonsafterschool.5.Igotintoafightwithmybestfriend.Listenagainandfinishthechart.ProblemsAdviceYoushouldstart______________tonightandyoucan____________.Ihavetostudyuntilreallylate,soIdon’tgetenoughsleep.Ihavetotakemorelessonsafterschool.I’msotired.Maybeyoushould_______________thatyoucan'tdo_______________.Youshould____________________.Explaintothemthatyouneedtoget_________________________.enoughsleeptostayhealthytalktoyourparentsagaintellyourparentssomanythingssleepearlierstudyingearlierListen.Peter’sfriendisgivinghimadvice.Fillintheblankswithcouldorshould.Advice

1.You_______writehimaletter.2.You_______callhimup.3.You_______talktohimsothatyoucansayyou’resorry.4.You_______gotohishouse.5.You_______takehimtotheballgame.couldshouldshouldcouldcouldcould和should都可以表示建議，但could表示比

should更加委婉的建議，意思是“可以”。should語(yǔ)氣比較強(qiáng)烈，意思是“應(yīng)該”2aAdvice

1.You_______writehimaletter.2.You_______callhimup.3.You_______talktohimsothatyoucansayyou’resorry.4.You_______gotohishouse.5.You_______takehimtotheballgame.couldshouldshouldcouldcouldWhyPeterdoesn’tliketheadvice

a.

It’snoteasy.b.Idon’twanttowaitthatlong.c.Idon’twanttosurprisehim.d.I’mnotgoodatwritingletters.e.Idon’twanttotalkaboutitonthephone.Listenagain.Whydoesn’tPeterlikehisfriend’sadvice?Writetheletters(a-e)nexttotheadvicein2a.2bSummarize:It’snormalthatwehavesomeproblemsandworriesinourlife.Butthereisnoneedtobeafraidoforrunawayfrom

them.Themostimportantthingistofacethembravelyandsolvethemwisely.1.壓力太大對(duì)我們有害2.允許某人做某事3.各種年齡段的人都有壓力4.課外活動(dòng)課5.與某人吵架6.我們應(yīng)該勇敢面對(duì)壓力而不是逃避.7.我認(rèn)為最好的緩解壓力的方法是與父母開(kāi)誠(chéng)布公的談一談，當(dāng)他們知道我們的感受后會(huì)給我們一些有用的建議。

Toomuchstressisharmfultous.allowsb.todosth.Peopleofallageshavestress.

after-schoolclassesarguewithsb.Weshouldfacethestressbravelyinsteadofrunningawayfromit.Ithinkthebestwaytolowerstressistohaveanhonesttalkwithourparents.Whentheyknowourfeelings,theycangiveussomeusefuladvice.haveanargumentwithsb.1.HowdoesKimfeelabouthersisterafterhersistergavebackthethings?2.DoesDavethinkitisallrightforKim’ssistertotakeawayKim’sthings?Howdoyouknow?

No,hedoesn’t.Hesaidthat’snotverynice.3.DoesDavethinkthetwosistershaveaseriousproblem?Howdoyouknow?

No,hedoesn’t.Becausehesaidit’snotabigdeal.4.WhatdoesDavemeanbysaying“Hopethingsworkout”?

Hemeanstheycanbefriendsagain.Kimstillfeelsangrywithhersister.2dRead2dandanswerthequestions.Read2dandanswerthequestions.Howtogetonwellwithothers

Nowadays,moststudents

onlyfocusonstudytoimprovethemselvesorwinabetterfuture.Andtheyforgethowtogetonwellwithothers.Theyfeellonely

andunhappy.HereI’dliketooffersomeadvice.

Firstofall,weshouldrespectothers.Everybodyhastheirownwaytodothings,soweshouldunderstandeachother.Besides,itisimportantforustocommunicatewitheachotherandshareourhapinesssadness.Lastbutnotleast,weshouldbekindtoothersandofferhelptothosewhoareintrouble.

Inmyopinion,weshouldtreatothersinanhonestway.Onlyinthesewayscanwegetalongwellwithothers.Freetalk◆Doyouhaveanybrothersorsisters?Canyougetonwellwithhim/her?◆Canyourparentsalwaysunderstandyou?◆Willyouarguewiththem?haveanargumentwithsbaboutsthHowdoyoudealwiththeproblems?

Runawayfromitortrytosolveit?

Doyoufindanyonetohelpyou?Whocanyougoandaskforhelp?Whatelsecanyoudotogethelpfromothers?

CallthehotlineWritetosomeeditorsofnewspapersandmagazines1.What'stherelationshipbetweenthem?2.What'stheproblemwiththem?3.Howdoyoufeelwhenyourparentsargue?Worried,afraid,scared,nervous...Theyareacouple.Theyarguewitheachother.Theydon’tgetonwitheachother.Lookatthepictureanddiscuss.ProblemAdviceStructureWhatarethetwolettersabout?FastreadingReadtheletteragainandfillintheblanks.Hecan't_________hisfamily.getonwithparents________brotherelderProblems:They

alot.It'stheonly____________theyhave.Feeling:

It'slikeabig,black

cloud___________hishome.hangingoverProblems:Heis_______tohim.He_______tolethimwatchhisfavoriteTVshow.Feeling:

Thisis

.SadandThirteenfeels_______and_______.notnicerefusesunfairlonelynervousfightcommunicationlonelyandnervousgetonwellcommunicationisn'tveryniceallowwhateverhewantsReadtheletteragainandfillintheblanks.It’s_______tohavethesefeelings.1.Whydon’tyou_________thesefeelingswithyourfamily?2.Youshould___________ifyourparentsarehavingproblems.3.Maybeyoucould____________sothattheyhavemoretimefor____________________.1.Whydon’tyousitdownand________________him?

2.Youshould_______thatyoudon’t____himwatchingTVallthetime.3.Heshould___you_______yourfavoriteshow.normaltalkaboutoffertohelpdomorejobspropercommunicationcommunicatewithexplainAdvicemindletwatchaboutbrotheraboutparentsadvicesuggestionsTelldomorehouseworktowatchSectionB1a-1eUnit4Whydon’tyoutalktoyourparents?PressureTestA.Itisnotmoving.B.Itmovesslowly.

C.Itmovesquickly.A.Youdon’thavepressure.C.Youhavealotofpressure.B.Youhavealittlestress/pressure.Whatactivitiesdoyouliketodotohelploweryourstress?Orderthem[1-8]with1beingthemostfavoritethingyoudotolowerstress.1a_____playsports_____hangoutwithfriends_____talktoparentsorotherfamilymembers_____spendtimealone_____playcomputergames_____readbooks_____watchmovies_____other:_______________Ithinkthebestwaytolowerstressisto...listentomusic1.Althoughyoumaybe__________withyourparents,youshouldtalktothem.Askthemwhytheygiveyousomuch__________.unhappypressureListenagain.WhatadvicedoesAlicegivetoWeiMing?Fillintheblanks.1d2.Lifeshouldn’tjustbeabout__________.Freetimeactivitieslike_________andhangingoutwithfriendsareimportant,too.3.Youshouldn’t_________withyourclassmatestogetbettergrades.Youshouldallbe_______eachothertoimprove.competehelpinggradessportsTobewin-winismoreimportantthantowin.Lookatthetitleandguess

4.What’spassageabout?Maybethispassgaeisabout___________whohavenotimeto_________.1.Whatdoes“You”referto?Itrefersto_________________2.Whatdoes“Maybe”mean?Itmeansdifferent___________onlearningtorelax.3.Whydo“you”shouldlearntorelax?Because“we”are________________,so“we”shouldlearntorelax.children/teenageersopinionstired/stressedoutchildren/teenageersrelaxFastreading

()What'sthemainideaofthisarticle?A.Chinesestudentsarequitebusy.B.StudentsareundergreatpressurethesedaysC.Peopleshouldn’tpushtheirchildrensohardD.KidsshouldhaveproperpressureCSkimthepassageandfindoutthemainideaofeachparagraph.Manyparentspushtheirkidsintolearningmoreskills.LifeforCathyTaylor’sthreechildrenisverybusy.LindaMillerknowsallaboutsuchstress.Doctorssaytoomuchpressureisnotgoodforachild’sdevelopment.2bReadparagraph1andanswerthequestions.2.Whatdoyouthinkofsuchabusylife?1.Whydotheparentspushtheirkidsintolearningmoreskills?Becausetheybelieveithelpstheirkidstobettercompeteinlife.

Itcanplacegreatpressureonstudents.

Thesedays,manyparentspushtheirchildrenintolearningmoreskills.Theybelieveithelpstheirkidstobettercompeteinlife.However,suchabusylifecanplace

greatpressureonstudents.1.WhydoesthewritertakeTaylor’sfamilyasanexample?Becauseitisa____________familyinAmerica.2.DoesCathyreallywantherchildrentohaveafter-schoolactivities?Howdoyouknow?________________________________________.3.Willshecutoutherchildren’safter-schoolactivities?Why?_________________________________________typicalNo,shedoesn’t....cutoutafewoftheactivitiesNo,shewon’t....importantforherchildren’sfuture.ShereallywantsthemtobesuccessfulReadPara.2andanswerReadparagraph3andfinishthemindmap.Linda'sopinionsLinda_________(agrees/disagrees)withCathy.disagrees

startsveryyoungand

.untilkidsgetolder.CompetitioncontinuesIt's

andunfairto

them_______otherkids.crazycomparewithWhydon'ttheyjust

？lettheirkidsbekidsPeopleshouldn't

.

theirkidssohard.pushReadP3,judgeTorF1.Lindaisforafter-schoolactivities.2.InLinda’sfamily,competitionstartsveryyoung.3.Lindaisunsatisfiedthatparentscomparetheirchildrenwithothers’.4.Parentsaregivingtheirkidstoomuchpressure.5.Lindathinksit’sunfairthatsomeparentsjustlettheirkidsbekids.TFFFT123ReadPara4andgetDr.AliceGreen’sopinionsToomuchpressureis_____________forachild’sdevelopment.

Theseactivitiescan

alotofstress.Althoughitisnormaltowant________children,it’sevenmoreimportanttohave________children.Kidsshouldhavetimeto________and_________________________.notgoodsuccessfulhappyrelaxthinkforthemselvescause

3.Howdoesthewriterfeelaboutthechildren?A.AngryB.SorryC.Happy1.Isthewriterfororagainst

after-schoolclasses?4.Doesthewritergiveanysolutions?However,thetiredchildrendon’tgethomeuntilafter7:00pm.Theyhaveaquickdinner,andthenit’stimeforhomework.2.Whichsentenceshowshisopinion?MaybeYouShouldLearntoRelax!Readthewholepassageagainandanswerthequestions.Sumupthestructure.ThepresentsituationManyparentspushtheirkidsintolearningmoreskills.Differentpeople’sopinionsLindaMiller’sopinionDr.AliceGreen’sopinionCathyTaylor’sopinionTheseactivitiesareimportantforkids’future.Andshewantsherchildrentobesuccessful.It’scrazyandunfairtocomparekidswithothers.Weshouldn’tpushthemsohard.Althoughit'snormaltowantsuccessfulchildren,it'sevenmoreimportanttohavehappychildren.

Whodoyouagreewith?Nowadays,whyparentstaketheirchildrentodifferentkindsofafter-schoolclasses？After-schoolclassescanhelpkidsgetintoagooduniversity.2.Theywanttheirchildrentobesuccessfulpeople.3.It’sgoodforchildrentostartlearningfromayoungage.4.After-schoolclassescanhelpkidsbettercompeteinlife.5.Someafter-schoolclassescanteachchildrensomeskillstheycan’tlearnatschool.Whatisyouropinion?Doyouagreeordisagree?YouropinionsAgree:After-schoolclassesaregoodforthechildren’sfuture.Theycanhelpchildrengetintogoodschoolsandtopuniversities.Someoftheseclasseshelpchildrengetbettergradesatschool.Bettergradeshelpchildrenfeelgoodaboutthemselves.Someclasseshelpchildrenlearnimportantskillswhichtheycan’tlearnatschool.Theseskillsmayactuallyhelpchildrenrelax,suchasplayingasportorplayingamusicalinstrument.

Peoplelearnbetteratayoungerage.

Childrenhavemoretimethanadults,sotheyshouldlearnasmuchastheycanbeforetheygettoobusytolearnnewthings.

Disagree:

After-schoolclassestakeupchildren’sfreetime.Childrenhavenotimetorelaxanddowhattheylike.

Childrenmaybesobusythattheyhavenotimetounderstandwhattheyhavelearntatschool.

Somechildrenhavetolearnskillstheyarenotinterestedin.

Disagree:Theseclassescausethechildrentobestressed.Theseclassestakeawaythechildren’schildhood.Toomanyafter-schoolclassesmakechildrenstressedoutandtoomuchstressisnotgoodforchildren’sdevelopment.Whatshouldyoudotorelax?Getenoughsleep.Talktootherswhenyouarestressed.Listentomusic.4.Haveagoodmindset.5.Developyourownhobbies.6.Keepabalancebetweenstudyandlife.7.Planyourtimewell.8.Doexerciseandeatwell.9.Hangoutwithyourfriends.

你的朋友Peter與父母相處出現(xiàn)了問(wèn)題。他寫(xiě)信向你求助，請(qǐng)你給他回信并且給出幾點(diǎn)建議。Beginning:Greetings(yourfeelingsafterhearingfromhim)

Don’tworry,letmegiveyousomeadvicewhichmayhelpyouout.

I’mgladto

hearfrom

you,butI’msorrytohearthatyoucan’tgetonwellwithyourparents.Mainpart:Suggestions

1.communicate

Firstandforemost,youshould

communicatewithyourparentsasoftenasyoucan.Nomatterwhathappenstoyou,tellthemaboutyourthoughtsandfeelingsandthentheywillunderstandyoubetter.Inmyopinion,communicationisthebestwaytosolveaproblem.Mainpart:Suggestions

2.respectandunderstandyourparents

What’smore,youshouldrespectandunderstandyourparents.Youcanputyourselfintoyourparents’shoes.Whenyoutrytoseethingsfromyourparents’pointofview,youwillunderstandthembetter.3.acceptdifferentideasfromyourparents.Lastbutnotleast,youcanalsolearntoacceptdifferentideasfromyourparentsevenifyoudisagreewithyourparents.Youcanlearnfromyourparents’lifeexperienceandit’sgoodforyourpersonalgrowth.Ending:OpinionsandwishesYouropinions

Inmyopinion,parentsofferuseverythingwithoutexpectinganythinginreturn.Theyonlywantustobecomebetterandliveahappylifeinthefuture.Weshouldtrytounderstandthemandgetonwellwiththem.

Hopeyoucanimprovetherelationshipwithyourparentsandthingswillbebettersoon./Ihopemyadvicewillbehelpfultoyou.

I’mgladto

hearfrom

you,butI’msorrytohearthatyoucan’tgetonwellwithyourparents.Don’tworry,letmegiveyousomeadvicewhichmayhelpyouout.Firstandforemost,youshould

communicatewithyourparentsasoftenasyoucan.Nomatterwhathappenstoyou,tellthemaboutyourthoughtsandfeelingsandthentheywillunderstandyoubetter.Inmyopinion,communicationisthebestwaytosolveaproblem.

What’smore,youshouldrespectandunderstandyourparents.Youcanputyourselfintoyourparents’shoes.Whenyoutrytoseethingsfromyourparents’pointofview,youwillunderstandthembetter.Lastbutnotleast,youcanalsolearntoacceptdifferentideasfromyourparentsevenifyoudisagreewithyourparents.Youcanlearnfromyourparents’lifeexperienceandit’sgoodforyourpersonalgrowth.

Inmyopinion,parentsofferuseverythingwithoutexpectinganythinginreturn.Theyonlywantustobecomebetterandliveahappylifeinthefuture.Weshouldtrytounderstandthemandgetonwellwiththem.Hopeyoucanimprovetherelationshipwithyourparentsandthingswillbebettersoon.1.闡明遇到的問(wèn)題2.按順序給建議。1.Herearesomemytips.2.Iknowyouhavedifficultiesonstudymath.Youshouldface