1、5 5 WAYS WAYS to help to help y you to solveou to solvethe the RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP among youramong yourROOMMATESROOMMATES試1301 第七組 You will most likely have a least one time in your college career where your roommate will do something that either frustrates or upsets you, maybe even consistent

2、ly. If you bring it up the first time it bothers you in an appropriate manner, the chances of the issue being resolved automatically increase a bunch!With that, heres my take on how to deal With that, heres my take on how to deal with a roommate confrontation.with a roommate confrontation.mFirst, as

3、k nicelymDont take forever to discuss your concernsmNow, have a sit downmOffer up a solution and say thank youmHighlight their strengthsFirst, ask nicelyFirst, ask nicely If you go at them like youre going to rip their head off, its probably going to end badly. The first time you catch something tha

4、t is bothersome, simply ask them to do it differently. Example “Hey, would you please turn down the computer a little bit? ” rather than turn down the computer, shit!Dont take Dont take foreverforever about your concerns about your concernsDont wait an entire semester to approach them with whatever

5、is bothering you! It will be nonsense to start up a new semester saying “So, last semester it drove me nuts when you never took out the trashlets work on that this semester.” They will undoubtedly ask you why you didnt say something earlier.Now, have a sit downNow, have a sit down A calm one, at tha

6、t. Just be like “Hey, can I talk to you about something really quick! Its not a big deal, I just wanted to ask a favor of you!” Lay out exactly what youre having a problem with and be clear in why it troubles you.Offer up a solution and say thank youOffer up a solution and say thank you Dont have a

7、sit down without having a way to resolve the issue. If for some reason you cant think of one, ask them for their thoughts or if theres something you can do to help as well. And say thank you in regards to them being willing to sit down and hear you out! Thank youThank you is always make a big difference in the long run!Highlight their strengthsHighlight their strengthsAfter you talk about what is upsetting you, make sure to highlight something you appreciate about them or that theyre doing right”Thanks for keeping the living room clear of your things after youre done studying, but is there a