unit9Cultivation教養(yǎng)、修養(yǎng)1.Whatwillyoudotomakeyourfriendssmileandfeelhappy?

你會做什么讓你的朋友微笑和感到快樂？2.Doyousometimesloseyourtemperwhenyouareintrouble?

當(dāng)你遇到麻煩的時候，你是否也會發(fā)脾氣？3.Howcanyougetonwellwithothers?

你怎么能和別人相處得好？Therewas

oncealittleboy

withabadtemper.Heoftenhadfightswithhisfriends.

從前有個小男孩脾氣不好，他經(jīng)常和朋友打架FoodforThought有益的教誨Oneday,hisfathergavehimabagof

nailsandtoldhimto

hammeranailintothefenceeverytimehelosthistemper.Theboylistenedtohisfatheranddidwhathisfathertoldhimtodo.有一天，他的父親給了他一袋釘子，告訴他每次他發(fā)脾氣的時候都要把釘子釘進(jìn)柵欄里。男孩聽了他父親的話做了他父親叫他做的事

Thefirstday,theboydrove

17nails

intothefence.Thenthenumberof

nailsbecamelessandlessinthefollowingdays.Theboyfoundthatitwaseasiertokeephistemperthan

todrivethenailsintothefence.第一天，男孩把17根釘子插進(jìn)柵欄。接下來的日子里釘子的數(shù)量越來越少。這個男孩發(fā)現(xiàn)保持脾氣比釘釘子更容易Finally,thedaycamewhentheboydidn’tlosehistemperatall.Hetoldhisfatheraboutitandhisfatheraskedhimtopulloutonenaileachtimehewasabletokeephistemper.終于有一天，男孩沒有發(fā)脾氣。他告訴父親這件事，他父親要求他每次發(fā)脾氣時都要拔出一個釘子。

Thedayspassedandtheyoungboywas

finallyabletotellhisfatherthatallthenailsweregone.Thefathertookhissonbythehand

andledhimtothefence.日子一天天過去，小男孩終于告訴父親，所有的釘子都不見了。父親牽著兒子的手，領(lǐng)著他來到柵欄前Hesaid,“Youhavedonewell,son,butlookattheholesinthefence.Thefencewillneverbethesameasitwasbefore.Whenyousaysomewordsinanger,yourbadtemperwillleaveascarjustlikethehole.他說：“你做得很好，孩子，但看看籬笆上的洞?；h笆永遠(yuǎn)不會和以前一樣。當(dāng)你生氣地說幾句話時，你的壞脾氣就會像洞一樣留下疤痕。Evenif

yousayyou’resorry,thewoundisstillthere.Ifyouhurtapersonwithwords,thewoundisasbadasaphysicalone.Friendsarerarejewels.Theymakeyousmileandfeelhappy.Soneverhurtyourfriends.”即使你說對不起，傷痕還在那里。如果你傷害一個人的話，造成的傷痕和身體上是一樣的。朋友是稀世珍寶。他們讓你笑，感到快樂。所以永遠(yuǎn)不要傷害你的朋友?！?/p>

Sincethentheboyhadneverfoughtwithhisfriends.Helearnedhowtogetonwith

othersandheneverlosthistemperagain.從那以后，男孩就再也沒有和朋友打架了。他學(xué)會了如何與別人相處，而且從不發(fā)脾氣。1.Whatdidthefatheraskthelittleboytodoeachtimehelosthistemper?Thefatheraskedhisson

.

everytime

.2.Howmanynailsdidtheboyhammerintothefencethefirsrtday?Thefirstday,theboy

.tohammeranailintothefencehelosthistemperdrove17nailintothefence3.Whydidtheboystopdrivingthenailsintothefencelater?Becausetheboy.4.Whatdidthefatheraskhimtodoeachtimehewasabletokeephistemper?Thefatheraskedhisson

eachtime.didn'tlosehistemperatalltopulloutonenailhewasabletokeephistemper5.Didtheboypulloutallthenails?

.6.Whatdoesthestorytellus?

.

.

.Yes,hedidThestorytellsusthatfriendsarerarejewels,thattheymakeussmileandfeelhappyandthatweshouldneverhurtourfriends.inangerkeeplosenot...atalllead

thesameasas...as..getonwith1.Theteacheraskedme

,“Whyareyoulateagain?”2.Ourclassroomis

large

yours.3.Mymotheraskedme

myroomclean.inangerasastokeep4.Thequestionis

difficult.Youshouldansweritbyyourself.5.Anoldman

ustotheoldhouseandtoldushisstory.6.Thegirlhas

question

.yours.notatallledthesameas7.I

mykeytothedoorofmybedroomyesterday.8.Theboysandthegirlsinourclassare

well

eachother.lostgettingonwith1.Evenifweareangry,wehaveto

.

(控制自己不發(fā)脾氣).2.Whydoyousometimes

.(發(fā)脾氣)thesedays?

3.Theboysnever

.

(和女生打架)inourclass.

controlyourselfandkeepyourtemperloseyourtemperhavefightswithgirls4.Theirbedroom

.

(看起來和以前不一樣了).5.Thisbookis

(一點兒都沒趣)6.Doyouknow

.

(怎樣與同學(xué)相處嗎？).doesn'tlookthesameasbeforenotinterestingatallhowtogetonwithyourclassmates?1.—What

you

(do)now?—I

(play)computergames.2.Myfather

(work)inthiscompanyfor5yearsnow.3.WhenIsawhim,he

(learn)newEnglishwords.aredoingamplayinghasworkedwaslearning4.IwasverygladtohearthisbecauseI

.(look)forwardtoseeingmygrandpa.5.—Where

you

(go)?—I

(go)totheairporttomeetmyboss.6.Sorry,Ican'tgowithyounow.I

.(notfinish)myhomework.waslookingaregoingamgoinghaven'tfinishedIsometimeslose

andsay

.inanger.Mybadtemper

hurt

.badly.Iwanttomakefriends

,butIdon'tknowhowto.AfterI

.

—“FoodforThought”,IthinkIhaveabetterideaoftha