社會(huì)實(shí)踐家庭體驗(yàn)類活動(dòng)總結(jié)

(SummaryofSocialPracticeFamily

ExperienceActivities)

寒假期間進(jìn)行社會(huì)家庭體驗(yàn)類活動(dòng)，雖不能說完成了怎樣的任務(wù)，也

還是頗有體會(huì)。中學(xué)時(shí)期，只顧學(xué)習(xí)的我們似乎總是忽略了家中的柴

米油鹽，而到了大學(xué)，遠(yuǎn)在千里之外，更是很少能參與到家庭生活中

去，因此，難得一個(gè)悠閑的假期，也算是對(duì)過去生活所缺失的一種彌

補(bǔ)，尤其是我家中一次特別事件的發(fā)生對(duì)我來說真是一場(chǎng)難忘的經(jīng)

歷,至!!現(xiàn)在都?xì)v歷在目。(Duringthewintervacation,Icando

socialandfamilyexperienceactivities.AlthoughIcan，tsay

whattasksIhavecompleted,Istillhavealotofexperience.

Inmiddleschool,wewhoonlycareaboutstudyalwaysseemto

ignorethefirewood,rice,oilandsaltathome,butwhenwe

arriveatuniversity,wearethousandsofmilesawayandrarely

participateinfamilylife.Therefore,itisraretohavea

leisurelyvacation,whichcanberegardedasthepastAremedy

thatwasmissinginlife,especiallytheoccurrenceofaspecial

eventinmyhome,wasreallyanunforgettableexperiencefor

me,anditisstillvividinmyeyes.)

一、社會(huì)家庭活動(dòng)一病房體驗(yàn)(1.Socialandfamily

activities-wardexperience)

與別人的買菜做飯，洗衣打掃不同，我的所謂社會(huì)實(shí)踐抑或說家庭體

驗(yàn)更有一種不幸，卻也有一絲欣慰。在寒假已過半的時(shí)候，父親不幸

檢查出血小板低，作為醫(yī)生，母親很快意識(shí)到事件的嚴(yán)重性，已經(jīng)滿

到加床的血液科病房，擁擠的三人間，連續(xù)的檢查，一串的聲音，讓

正在家中無所事事的我心口一疼，我心目中一直最健康，最強(qiáng)大的父

親，就這樣病了嗎，還是如此之重，如此之急？匆忙趕到病房，爸爸

還是往日的樣子，似乎看不出什么病痛，然而呢，醫(yī)生告訴我們，這

種情況可能已經(jīng)持續(xù)了一個(gè)月了，過去的一個(gè)月中，父親的血小板只

有三千，而正常人是十萬至三十萬，過年喝酒與忙碌，不規(guī)律的生活,

事后一想，不禁感慨上天還是善良的，沒有讓不幸發(fā)生，倘若期間器

官出血，或者血管裂縫，后果不堪設(shè)想。（Unlikeotherpeople's

buyingfood,cooking,washingandcleaning,myso-calledsocial

practiceorfamilyexperienceismoreunfortunate,butalsoa

touchofcomfort.Whenthewintervacationwashalfwaythrough,

myfatherunfortunatelyfoundlowbloodplatelets.Asadoctor,

mymotherquicklyrealizedtheseriousnessoftheincident.The

hematologywardwithextrabeds,crowdedtriplerooms,

continuousexaminations,andaseriesofvoices,Letmyheart

hurtwhenIamdoingnothingathome.Thehealthiestand

strongestfatherinmymindhasbeensosick,isitstillso

seriousandurgent?Whenhehurriedtotheward,myfatherwas

stillthesameasbefore.Hedidn'tseemtoseeanypain.However,

thedoctortoldusthatthissituationmayhavebeengoingon

foramonth.Inthepastmonth,myfatherhadonly3000platelets.

Normalpeopleare100,000to300,000,drinkingandbusyduring

theChineseNewYear,andhavinganirregularlife.After

thinkingaboutit,Ican,thelpfeelingthatGodisstillkind

andhasnotallowedmisfortunetohappen.Ifthereisorgan

bleedingorbloodvesselcracksduringtheperiod,the

consequenceswillbeunimaginable.)

第一天，我是中午到了病房，父親已經(jīng)開始吊水用藥了，一天二十多

瓶液體，從早到晚，一直不能動(dòng)，一怕跑針，也還在于醫(yī)生擔(dān)心出血，

由于行動(dòng)不便，母親忙于看檢查結(jié)果，找醫(yī)生了解病情，我便一直照

顧著父親，喂飯，扶他上廁所，陪他聊天，平時(shí)雖然也有聊，但如此

長(zhǎng)時(shí)間和父親一起，聊著天，如果不考慮這惡劣的環(huán)境與情形，也還

是一種享受。期間陪他做了一次骨穿刺檢查，抽骨髓的大針頭插進(jìn)腰

部，一個(gè)健壯的男醫(yī)生很費(fèi)勁的鉆、按，雖然我是一名醫(yī)學(xué)生，看到

這樣的情形，還是不禁心頭抽搐。(Onthefirstday,Iarrivedin

thewardatnoon.Myfatherhadalreadystartedtosling

medicine.Thereweremorethan20bottlesofliquidaday.From

morningtonight,Icouldn'tmove.Iwasafraidofgettingthe

needleandthedoctorwasworriedaboutbleeding.Dueto

inconvenience,Mymotherwasbusylookingattheexamination

resultsandlookingforadoctortounderstandthecondition.

Ihavebeentakingcareofmyfather,feedinghim,helpinghim

tothetoilet,andchattingwithhim.AlthoughIusuallychat,

Ihavebeenwithmyfatherforsuchalongtime,ifIdon't

thinkaboutit.Thisharshenvironmentandsituationisstill

akindofenjoyment.Duringtheperiod,Iaccompaniedhimfor

abonepunctureexamination.Thebigneedleofthebonemarrow

wasinsertedintothewaist,andastrongmaledoctordrilled

andpressedveryhard.AlthoughIamamedicalstudent,Ican't

helpbutfeelconvulsionswhenIseethissituation.)

第一個(gè)晚上，在母親的堅(jiān)持下，我還是回家了，第二天中午，趕到醫(yī)

院，帶了午飯，為了緩解無聊，還用電腦下了很多集電視劇帶過去給

爸爸看，繼續(xù)吊水，因?yàn)橐后w太多，換得太頻繁，我學(xué)會(huì)了怎么換吊

瓶，前面吊的是一些小瓶，三十毫升的，很快滴完，只能一直密切注

意著，沒有液體立即去換，中間去送了一次血樣，檢驗(yàn)大廳里人來人

往，隨意一瞥，目光所及都是一些或焦躁或無奈的表情，不禁感嘆，

醫(yī)院真是一個(gè)令人哀傷的地方。(Onthefirstnight,withmy

mother'sinsistence,Iwenthome.Atnoonthenextday,I

rushedtothehospitalandbroughtlunch.Inordertorelieve

boredom,IalsodownloadedalotofTVseriesonthecomputer

andbroughtittomydadtowatch.Water,becausethereistoo

muchliquid,itischangedtoofrequently.Ihavelearnedhow

tochangethebottle.Therearesomesmallbottleshangingin

front,30ml,drippingquickly,Icanonlykeeppayingclose

attentiontoit,andchangeitimmediatelyifthereisnoliquid.

Abloodsamplewassentinthemiddleoftheinspectionhall.

Peoplecameandwentinthetesthall,andtheyglancedatrandom.

Theyalllookedatsomeanxiousorhelplessexpressions.I

couldn'thelpbutsighthatthehospitalisreallyasadplace.)

第二天，父親的同事，朋友陸續(xù)前來看望，父親的血小板也有了些許

提高，一切都是轉(zhuǎn)好的跡象，總體情況已經(jīng)比之前樂觀許多了，不過

從醫(yī)院的角度，一切病情從最壞的情況考慮，我還是收到了一份病危

通知書，由于母親之前已經(jīng)了解過了，我便簽了字，不得不說，第一

次簽這種字，心里很不好受，心中的責(zé)任感與對(duì)家庭的概念也有了很

大改變，不自覺地想到，如果一個(gè)人，我該如何生活，該何去何從。

(Thenextday,myfather'scolleaguesandfriendscameto

visitoneafteranother.Myfather'splateletshavealso

improvedabit.Everythingisshowingsignsofimprovement.The

overallsituationismuchmoreoptimisticthanbefore,butfrom

thehospitaUspointofview,everythinggoesfromtheworst.

Consideringthesituation,Istillreceivedacriticalillness

notice.Sincemymotherhadknownaboutitbefore,Isignedit.

IhavetosaythatthefirsttimeIsignedthiskindofword,

Ifeltveryuncomfortable,andmysenseofresponsibilityand

familyTheconceptof'I"hasalsochangedalot,andI

unconsciouslythinkabouthowIshouldliveandwheretogoif

Iamalone.)

第二天晚上我是在醫(yī)院的度過的，簡(jiǎn)易的躺椅，我還是睡得蠻好，有

可能真的累了吧，但是想到父親病情已有了極大改善，還是有堅(jiān)持下

去的動(dòng)力。早上六點(diǎn)不到，擔(dān)心不熟練而耽誤時(shí)間的實(shí)習(xí)生們已經(jīng)開

始準(zhǔn)備抽血了，連續(xù)幾天的檢查，由于父親血小板低，凝血能力弱，

已經(jīng)在肘窩處留下了三個(gè)大大的紅點(diǎn)。我出去買了早飯，八點(diǎn)醫(yī)生開

始查房，在父親病情穩(wěn)定下來，基本已度過危險(xiǎn)期后，我開始觀察醫(yī)

院病房中的點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴，在這個(gè)我未來工作的環(huán)境中，我對(duì)一切都是頗

有興趣的，醫(yī)生和每個(gè)病人都要聊好一會(huì)，詢問病情，看檢查結(jié)果，

又是還會(huì)閑聊一兩句，有可能這個(gè)房間病人都還不是很重吧，氛圍還

是隨意而柔和的，感覺上醫(yī)患關(guān)系也遠(yuǎn)沒有想象的那么混亂，不過顯

然是我以點(diǎn)帶面了吧，應(yīng)該慶幸，我們是遇到了負(fù)責(zé)任醫(yī)護(hù)人員，父

親轉(zhuǎn)危為安，真要感謝這些白衣天使！(ThenextnightIspentthe

nightinthehospital.Istillsleptwellinasimplerecliner.

MaybeIwasreallytired.Butthinkingthatmyfather's

conditionhasgreatlyimproved,Istillhavethemotivationto

sticktoit.Beforesixinthemorning,theinternswhowere

worriedaboutbeingunskilledandwastingtimehadalready

beguntopreparefortheblooddraw.Afterseveraldaysof

examinations,duetothefather'slowbloodplateletandweak

bloodclottingability,threelargeoneswereleftintheelbow

socket.Reddot.Iwentouttobuybreakfast,andthedoctor

startedroundsat8o'clock.Aftermyfather'scondition

stabilizedandhehadbasicallypassedthedangerousperiod,

Ibegantoobservethebitsandpiecesinthehospitalward.

Inthisenvironmentofmyfuturework,IamTheyareallvery

interested.Thedoctorandeachpatienthavetochatforawhile,

askingaboutthecondition,lookingattheexaminationresults,

andalsochattingafewwords,maybethepatientinthisroom

isnotveryheavy,theatmosphereisstillcasualAndsoft,it

feelsthatthedoctor-patientrelationshipisfarlesschaotic

thanimagined,butobviouslyitwasmewhobroughtthefaceto

facewithalittlebit.Fortunately,wemetaresponsible

medicalstaff,andmyfatherturnedthecrisisintopeace.I

reallywanttothanktheseangelsinwhite!)

第三天，第四天，第五天，我一天天堅(jiān)持著，父親也在快速康復(fù)著，

大概在第五天吧，血液檢查顯示血小板已經(jīng)七萬多了，到了接近正常

的水平，父親也算是完全度過了危險(xiǎn)，回想這五天，似乎經(jīng)歷了幾個(gè)

世紀(jì)，白天與黑夜的轉(zhuǎn)換，似乎比平時(shí)慢了好多倍，而我們一家人的

心境，也從谷底慢慢升起，似乎從黑暗中窺到了一絲光亮，在醫(yī)療技

術(shù)日益發(fā)展不斷完善的今天，我們都在相信著，都在信賴著，作為一

名任重而道遠(yuǎn)的醫(yī)學(xué)生，也看到了自己的未來道路，能治病救人，不

僅是救了一個(gè)人，更有可能挽救一個(gè)家庭，挽救很多很多親朋好友的

擔(dān)心與惆悵。（Onthethird,fourth,andfifthday,Ipersisted

everyday,andmyfatherwasrecoveringquickly.Aboutthefifth

day,thebloodtestshowedthattheplateletshadreached70,000,

whichwasclosetonormal.Itisconsideredashavingcompletely

passedthedanger.Lookingbackonthesefivedays,itseems

thatithasgonethroughseveralcenturies.Thetransition

betweendayandnightseemstobemanytimesslowerthanusual,

andthemoodofourfamilyhasslowlyrisenfromthebottomof

thevalley.Aglimmeroflightwasglimpsedinthedarkness.

Today,whenmedicaltechnologyisconstantlydevelopingand

improving,weareallbelievingandtrusting.Asamedical

studentwhohasalongwaytogo,wealsoseeourownfuture

path,whichcancurediseasesandsavepeople.Notonlyisit

savingaperson,itismorelikelytosaveafamily,andsave

theworryandmelancholyofmanyrelativesandfriends.）

寒假中這一非同尋常的經(jīng)歷，也許比再多的思考，再多的生活雜務(wù)都

來得更有意義，我不僅更深一步體驗(yàn)到了醫(yī)學(xué)這一專業(yè)，更加知道了

一個(gè)男人對(duì)于家庭，對(duì)于生活的擔(dān)當(dāng)，他毫無疑問是一個(gè)家庭的主心

骨，正如我的父親，不得不承認(rèn)，我再成長(zhǎng)，再經(jīng)歷，在他眼中永遠(yuǎn)

是孩子，他就是我們家的天，當(dāng)被陰霾籠罩，總是會(huì)對(duì)家庭造成莫大

的創(chuàng)傷。正在成長(zhǎng)中的我，也立下了自己的愿望，就像父親一樣，我

也會(huì)堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，會(huì)撐起自己的家。（Thisextraordinaryexperience

duringthewintervacationmaybemoremeaningfulthannoamount

ofthinkingandmorechoresinlife.Ihavenotonlyexperienced

theprofessionofmedicinemoredeeply,butalsolearnedmore

aboutaman'sroleinfamilyandlife.Takeresponsibility,

heisundoubtedlythebackboneofafamily.Justlikemyfather,

IhavetoadmitthatwhenIgrowupandexperienceagain,he

willalwaysbeachildinhiseyes.Heistheheavenofourfamily.

Whencoveredbythehaze,hewillalwaysGreattraumatothe

family.AsIamgrowingup,Ihavealsomadeupmyownwishes.

Justlikemyfather,Iwillbestrongandsupportmyhome.)

寒假期間進(jìn)行社會(huì)家庭體驗(yàn)類活動(dòng)，雖不能說完成了怎樣的任務(wù)，也

還是頗有體會(huì)。中學(xué)時(shí)期，只顧學(xué)習(xí)的我們似乎總是忽略了家中的柴

米油鹽，而到了大學(xué)，遠(yuǎn)在千里之外，更是很少能參與到家庭生活中

去，因此，難得一個(gè)悠閑的假期，也算是對(duì)過去生活所缺失的一種彌

補(bǔ)，尤其是我家中一次特別事件的發(fā)生對(duì)我來說真是一場(chǎng)難忘的經(jīng)

歷,至!J現(xiàn)在都?xì)v歷在目。(Duringthewintervacation,Icando

socialandfamilyexperienceactivities.AlthoughIcan，tsay

whattasksIhavecompleted,Istillhavealotofexperience.

Inmiddleschool,wewhoonlycareaboutstudyalwaysseemto

ignorethefirewood,rice,oilandsaltathome,butwhenwe

arriveatuniversity,wearethousandsofmilesawayandrarely

participateinfamilylife.Therefore,itisraretohavea

leisurelyvacation,whichcanberegardedasthepastAremedy

forwhatlifeismissing,especiallytheoccurrenceofaspecial

eventinmyhome,isreallyanunforgettableexperienceforme,

anditisstillvividinmyeyes.)

一、社會(huì)家庭活動(dòng)一病房體驗(yàn)(1.Socialandfamily

activities-wardexperience)

與別人的買菜做飯，洗衣打掃不同，我的所謂社會(huì)實(shí)踐抑或說家庭體

驗(yàn)更有一種不幸，卻也有一絲欣慰。在寒假已過半的時(shí)候，父親不幸

檢查出血小板低，作為醫(yī)生，母親很快意識(shí)到事件的嚴(yán)重性，已經(jīng)滿

到加床的血液科病房，擁擠的三人間，連續(xù)的檢查，一串的聲音，讓

正在家中無所事事的我心口一疼，我心目中一直最健康，最強(qiáng)大的父

親，就這樣病了嗎，還是如此之重，如此之急？匆忙趕到病房，爸爸

還是往日的樣子，似乎看不出什么病痛，然而呢，醫(yī)生告訴我們，這

種情況可能已經(jīng)持續(xù)了一個(gè)月了，過去的一個(gè)月中，父親的血小板只

有三千，而正常人是十萬至三十萬，過年喝酒與忙碌，不規(guī)律的生活,

事后一想，不禁感慨上天還是善良的，沒有讓不幸發(fā)生，倘若期間器

官出血，或者血管裂縫，后果不堪設(shè)想。(Unlikeotherpeople's

buyingfood,cooking,washingandcleaning,myso-calledsocial

practiceorfamilyexperienceismoreunfortunate,butalsoa

touchofcomfort.Whenthewintervacationwashalfwaythrough,

myfatherunfortunatelyfoundlowbloodplatelets.Asadoctor,

mymotherquicklyrealizedtheseriousnessoftheincident.The

hematologywardwithextrabeds,crowdedtriplerooms,

continuousexaminations,andaseriesofsounds,Letmyheart

hurtwhenIamdoingnothingathome.Thehealthiestand

strongestfatherinmymindhasbeensosick,isitstillso

seriousandurgent?Whenhehurriedtotheward,myfatherwas

stillthesameasbefore.Hedidn'tseemtoseeanypain.However,

thedoctortoldusthatthissituationmayhavebeengoingon

foramonth.Inthepastmonth,myfatherhadonly3000platelets.

Normalpeopleare100,000to300,000people.Theydrinkandlive

abusyandirregularlifeduringtheChineseNewYear.After

thinkingaboutit,Ican'thelpfeelingthatGodisstillkind

andnotallowingmisfortunetohappen.Ifthereisorgan

bleedingorbloodvesselcracksduringtheperiod,the

consequenceswillbeunimaginable.)

第一天，我是中午到了病房，父親已經(jīng)開始吊水用藥了，一天二十多

瓶液體，從早到晚，一直不能動(dòng)，一怕跑針，也還在于醫(yī)生擔(dān)心出血，

由于行動(dòng)不便，母親忙于看檢查結(jié)果，找醫(yī)生了解病情，我便一直照

顧著父親，喂飯，扶他上廁所，陪他聊天，平時(shí)雖然也有聊，但如此

長(zhǎng)時(shí)間和父親一起，聊著天，如果不考慮這惡劣的環(huán)境與情形，也還

是一種享受。期間陪他做了一次骨穿刺檢查，抽骨髓的大針頭插進(jìn)腰

部，一個(gè)健壯的男醫(yī)生很費(fèi)勁的鉆、按，雖然我是一名醫(yī)學(xué)生，看到

這樣的情形，還是不禁心頭抽搐。(Onthefirstday,Iarrivedin

thewardatnoon.Myfatherhadalreadystartedtosling

medicine.Thereweremorethan20bottlesofliquidaday.From

morningtonight,Icouldn'tmove.Iwasafraidofrunningthe

needle.Thedoctorwasalsoworriedaboutbleeding.Dueto

inconvenience,Mymotherwasbusyreadingtheexamination

resultsandlookingforadoctortofindoutaboutthecondition.

Ihavebeentakingcareofmyfather,feedinghim,helpinghim

tothetoilet,andchattingwithhim.AlthoughIusuallychat,

Ihavebeenwithmyfatherforsuchalongtime.Thisharsh

environmentandsituationisstillakindofenjoyment.During

theperiod,Iaccompaniedhimforabonepunctureexamination.

Thebigneedleofthebonemarrowwasinsertedintothewaist,

andastrongmaledoctordrilledandpressedveryhard.Although

Iamamedicalstudent,Ican'thelpbutfeelconvulsionswhen

Iseethissituation.)

第一個(gè)晚上，在母親的堅(jiān)持下，我還是回家了，第二天中午，趕到醫(yī)

院，帶了午飯，為了緩解無聊，還用電腦下了很多集電視劇帶過去給

爸爸看，繼續(xù)吊水，因?yàn)橐后w太多，換得太頻繁，我學(xué)會(huì)了怎么換吊

瓶，前面吊的是一些小瓶，三十毫升的，很快滴完，只能一直密切注

意著，沒有液體立即去換，中間去送了一次血樣，檢驗(yàn)大廳里人來人

往，隨意一瞥，目光所及都是一些或焦躁或無奈的表情，不禁感嘆，

醫(yī)院真是一個(gè)令人哀傷的地方。(Onthefirstnight,atthe

insistenceofmymother,Iwenthome.Atnoonthenextday,I

rushedtothehospitalandbroughtlunch.Inordertorelieve

boredom,IalsodownloadedalotofTVseriesonthecomputer

andbroughtittomydadtowatch.Water,becausethereistoo

muchliquid,itischangedtoofrequently.Ihavelearnedhow

tochangethebottle.Therearesomesmallbottleshangingin

front,30ml,drippingquickly,Icanonlykeeppayingclose

attentiontoit,andchangeitimmediatelyifthereisnoliquid.

Abloodsamplewassentinthemiddleoftheinspectionhall.

Peoplecameandwentinthetesthall,andtheyglancedatrandom.

Theyalllookedatsomeanxiousorhelplessexpressions.I

couldn'thelpbutsighthatthehospitalisreallyasadplace.)

第二天，父親的同事，朋友陸續(xù)前來看望，父親的血小板也有了些許

提高，一切都是轉(zhuǎn)好的跡象，總體情況已經(jīng)比之前樂觀許多了，不過

從醫(yī)院的角度，一切病情從最壞的情況考慮，我還是收到了一份病危

通知書，由于母親之前已經(jīng)了解過了，我便簽了字，不得不說，第一

次簽這種字，心里很不好受，心中的責(zé)任感與對(duì)家庭的概念也有了很

大改變，不自覺地想到，如果一個(gè)人，我該如何生活，該何去何從。

(Thenextday,myfather'scolleaguesandfriendscameto

visitoneafteranother.Myfather'splateletshavealso

improvedabit.Everythingisshowingsignsofimprovement.The

overallsituationismuchmoreoptimisticthanbefore,butfrom

thehospitaUspointofview,everythinggoesfromtheworst.

Consideringthesituation,Istillreceivedacriticalillness

notice.Sincemymotherhadknownaboutitbefore,Isignedit.

IhavetosaythatthefirsttimeIsignedthiskindofword,

Ifeltveryuncomfortable,andmysenseofresponsibilityand

familyTheconceptof'I"hasalsochangedalot,andI

unconsciouslythinkofhowIshouldliveandwheretogoifI

amalone.)

第二天晚上我是在醫(yī)院的度過的，簡(jiǎn)易的躺椅，我還是睡得蠻好，有

可能真的累了吧，但是想到父親病情已有了極大改善，還是有堅(jiān)持下

去的動(dòng)力。早上六點(diǎn)不到，擔(dān)心不熟練而耽誤時(shí)間的實(shí)習(xí)生們已經(jīng)開

始準(zhǔn)備抽血了，連續(xù)幾天的檢查，由于父親血小板低，凝血能力弱，

已經(jīng)在肘窩處留下了三個(gè)大大的紅點(diǎn)。我出去買了早飯，八點(diǎn)醫(yī)生開

始查房，在父親病情穩(wěn)定下來，基本已度過危險(xiǎn)期后，我開始觀察醫(yī)

院病房中的點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴，在這個(gè)我未來工作的環(huán)境中，我對(duì)一切都是頗

有興趣的，醫(yī)生和每個(gè)病人都要聊好一會(huì)，詢問病情，看檢查結(jié)果，

又是還會(huì)閑聊一兩句，有可能這個(gè)房間病人都還不是很重吧，氛圍還

是隨意而柔和的，感覺上醫(yī)患關(guān)系也遠(yuǎn)沒有想象的那么混亂，不過顯

然是我以點(diǎn)帶面了吧，應(yīng)該慶幸，我們是遇到了負(fù)責(zé)任醫(yī)護(hù)人員，父

親轉(zhuǎn)危為安，真要感謝這些白衣天使！(ThenextnightIspentthe

nightinthehospital.Inasimplerecliner,Istillsleptwell,

maybeIwasreallytired,butthinkingthatmyfather's

conditionhasgreatlyimproved,Istillhavethemotivationto

sticktoit.Beforesixinthemorning,theinternswhowere

worriedaboutbeingunskilledandwastingtimehadalready

beguntopreparefortheblooddraw.Afterseveraldaysof

examinations,duetothefather'slowplateletsandweakblood

clottingability,threelargeoneswereleftintheelbowsocket.

Reddot.Iwentouttobuybreakfast,andthedoctorstarted

roundsat8o'clock.Aftermyfather'sconditionstabilized

andhehadbasicallypassedthedangerousperiod,Ibeganto

observethebitsandpiecesinthehospitalward.Inthis

environmentofmyfuturework,IamTheyareallveryinterested.

Thedoctorandeachpatienthavetochatforawhile,asking

aboutthecondition,lookingattheexaminationresults,and

alsochattingafewwords,maybethepatientinthisroomis

notveryheavy,theatmosphereisstillcasualAndsoft,it

feelsthatthedoctor-patientrelationshipisfarlesschaotic

thanimagined,butobviouslyitwasmewhobroughtthefaceto

facewithalittlebit.Fortunately,wemetaresponsible

medicalstaff,andmyfatherturnedthecrisisintopeace.I

reallywanttothanktheseangelsinwhite!)

第三天，第四天，第五天，我一天天堅(jiān)持著，父親也在快速康復(fù)著，

大概在第五天吧，血液檢查顯示血小板已經(jīng)七萬多了，到了接近正常

的水平，父親也算是完全度過了危險(xiǎn)，回想這五天，似乎經(jīng)歷了幾個(gè)

世紀(jì)，白天與黑夜的轉(zhuǎn)換，似乎比平時(shí)慢了好多倍，而我們一家人的

心境，也從谷底慢慢升起，似乎從黑暗中窺到了一絲光亮，在醫(yī)療技

術(shù)日益發(fā)展不斷完善的今天，我們都在相信著，都在信賴著，作為一

名任重而道遠(yuǎn)的醫(yī)學(xué)生，也看到了自己的未來道路，能治病救人，不

僅是救了一個(gè)人，更有可能挽救一個(gè)家庭，挽救很多很多親朋好友的

擔(dān)心與惆悵。(Onthethird,fourth,andfifthday,Ipersisted

everyday,andmyfatherwasrecoveringquickly.Aboutthefifth

day,thebloodtestshowedthattheplateletshadreached70,000,

whichwasclosetonormal.Itisconsideredashavingcompletely

passedthedanger.Lookingbackonthesefivedays,itseems

thatithasgonethroughseveralcenturies.Thetransition

betweendayandnightseemstohavebeenmanytimesslowerthan

usual,andthemoodofourfamilyhasslowlyrisenfromthe

bottomofthevalley.Aglimmeroflightwasglimpsedinthe

darkness.Today,whenmedicaltechnologyisconstantly

developingandimproving,weareallbelievingandtrusting.

Asamedicalstudentwhohasalongwaytogo,wealsoseeour

ownfuturepath,whichcancurediseasesandsavepeople.Not

onlydoesitsaveaperson,itismorelikelytosaveafamily,

andsavetheworryandmelancholyofmanyrelativesand

friends.)

寒假中這一非同尋常的經(jīng)歷，也許比再多的思考，再多的生活雜務(wù)都

來得更有意義，我不僅更深一步體驗(yàn)到了醫(yī)學(xué)這一專業(yè)，更加知道了

一個(gè)男人對(duì)于家庭，對(duì)于生活的擔(dān)當(dāng)，他毫無疑問是一個(gè)家庭的主心

骨，正如我的父親，不得不承認(rèn)，我再成長(zhǎng)，再經(jīng)歷，在他眼中永遠(yuǎn)

是孩子，他就是我們家的天，當(dāng)被陰霾籠罩，總是會(huì)對(duì)家庭造成莫大

的創(chuàng)傷。正在成長(zhǎng)中的我，也立下了自己的愿望，就像父親一樣，我

也會(huì)堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，會(huì)撐起自己的家。(Thisextraordinaryexperience

duringthewintervacationmaybemoremeaningfulthannoamount

ofthinkingandmorechores.Inotonlyhaveadeeperexperience

ofmedicine,butalsoknowaman'sroleinhisfamilyandlife.

Takeresponsibility,heisundoubtedlythebackboneofafamily.

Justlikemyfather,IhavetoadmitthatwhenIgrowupand

experienceagain,Iwillalwaysbeachildinhiseyes.Heis

theheavenofourfamily.Whenshroudedinhaze,hewillalways

Greattraumatothefamily.AsIamgrowingup,Ihavealsomade

mywish.Justlikemyfather,Iwillbestrongandsupportmy

home.)

寒假期間進(jìn)行社會(huì)家庭體驗(yàn)類活動(dòng)，雖不能說完成了怎樣的任務(wù)，也

還是頗有體會(huì)。中學(xué)時(shí)期，只顧學(xué)習(xí)的我們似乎總是忽略了家中的柴

米油鹽，而到了大學(xué)，遠(yuǎn)在千里之外，更是很少能參與到家庭生活中

去，因此，難得一個(gè)悠閑的假期，也算是對(duì)過去生活所缺失的一種彌

補(bǔ)，尤其是我家中一次特別事件的發(fā)生對(duì)我來說真是一場(chǎng)難忘的經(jīng)

歷,至！J現(xiàn)在都?xì)v歷在目。（Duringthewintervacation,Icando

socialandfamilyexperienceactivities.AlthoughIcan，tsay

whattasksIhavecompleted,Istillhavealotofexperience.

Inmiddleschool,wewhoonlycareaboutstudyalwaysseemto

ignorethefirewood,rice,oilandsaltathome,butwhenwe

arriveatuniversity,wearethousandsofmilesawayandrarely

participateinfamilylife.Therefore,itisraretohavea

leisurelyvacation,whichcanberegardedasthepastAremedy

forwhatlifeismissing,especiallytheoccurrenceofaspecial

eventinmyhome,isreallyanunforgettableexperienceforme,

anditisstillvividinmyeyes.)

一、社會(huì)家庭活動(dòng)一病房體驗(yàn)(1.Socialandfamily

activities-wardexperience)

與別人的買菜做飯，洗衣打掃不同，我的所謂社會(huì)實(shí)踐抑或說家庭體

驗(yàn)更有一種不幸，卻也有一絲欣慰。在寒假已過半的時(shí)候，父親不幸

檢查出血小板低，作為醫(yī)生，母親很快意識(shí)到事件的嚴(yán)重性，已經(jīng)滿

到加床的血液科病房，擁擠的三人間，連續(xù)的檢查，一串的聲音，讓

正在家中無所事事的我心口一疼，我心目中一直最健康，最強(qiáng)大的父

親，就這樣病了嗎，還是如此之重，如此之急？匆忙趕到病房，爸爸

還是往日的樣子，似乎看不出什么病痛，然而呢，醫(yī)生告訴我們，這

種情況可能已經(jīng)持續(xù)了一個(gè)月了，過去的一個(gè)月中，父親的血小板只

有三千，而正常人是十萬至三十萬，過年喝酒與忙碌，不規(guī)律的生活,

事后一想，不禁感慨上天還是善良的，沒有讓不幸發(fā)生，倘若期間器

官出血，或者血管裂縫，后果不堪設(shè)想。(Unlikeotherpeople's

buyingfood,cooking,washingandcleaning,myso-calledsocial

practiceorfamilyexperienceismoreunfortunate,butalsoa

touchofcomfort.Whenthewintervacationwashalfwaythrough,

myfatherunfortunatelyfoundlowbloodplatelets.Asadoctor,

mymotherquicklyrealizedtheseriousnessoftheincident.The

hematologywardwithextrabeds,crowdedtriplerooms,

continuousexaminations,andaseriesofsounds,Letmyheart

hurtwhenIamdoingnothingathome.Thehealthiestand

strongestfatherinmymindhasbeensosick,isitstillso

seriousandurgent?Whenhehurriedtotheward,myfatherwas

stillthesameasbefore.Hedidn'tseemtoseeanypain.However,

thedoctortoldusthatthissituationmayhavebeengoingon

foramonth.Inthepastmonth,myfatherhadonly3000platelets.

Normalpeopleare100,000to300,000people.Theydrinkandlive

abusyandirregularlifeduringtheChineseNewYear.After

thinkingaboutit,IcanthelpfeelingthatGodisstillkind

andnotallowingmisfortunetohappen.Ifthereisorgan

bleedingorbloodvesselcracksduringtheperiod,the

consequenceswillbeunimaginable.)

第一天，我是中午到了病房，父親已經(jīng)開始吊水用藥了，一天二十多

瓶液體，從早到晚，一直不能動(dòng)，一怕跑針，也還在于醫(yī)生擔(dān)心出血，

由于行動(dòng)不便，母親忙于看檢查結(jié)果，找醫(yī)生了解病情，我便一直照

顧著父親，喂飯，扶他上廁所，陪他聊天，平時(shí)雖然也有聊，但如此

長(zhǎng)時(shí)間和父親一起，聊著天，如果不考慮這惡劣的環(huán)境與情形，也還

是一種享受。期間陪他做了一次骨穿刺檢查，抽骨髓的大針頭插進(jìn)腰

部，一個(gè)健壯的男醫(yī)生很費(fèi)勁的鉆、按，雖然我是一名醫(yī)學(xué)生，看到

這樣的情形，還是不禁心頭抽搐。(Onthefirstday,Iarrivedin

thewardatnoon.Myfatherhadalreadystartedtosling

medicine.Thereweremorethan20bottlesofliquidaday.From

morningtonight,Icouldn'tmove.Iwasafraidofrunningthe

needle.Thedoctorwasalsoworriedaboutbleeding.Dueto

inconvenience,Mymotherwasbusyreadingtheexamination

resultsandlookingforadoctortofindoutaboutthecondition.

Ihavebeentakingcareofmyfather,feedinghim,helpinghim

tothetoilet,andchattingwithhim.AlthoughIusuallychat,

Ihavebeenwithmyfatherforsuchalongtime.Thisharsh

environmentandsituationisstillakindofenjoyment.During

theperiod,Iaccompaniedhimforabonepunctureexamination.

Thebigneedleofthebonemarrowwasinsertedintothewaist,

andastrongmaledoctordrilledandpressedveryhard.Although

Iamamedicalstudent,Ican,thelpbutfeelconvulsionswhen

Iseethissituation.)

第一個(gè)晚上，在母親的堅(jiān)持下，我還是回家了，第二天中午，趕到醫(yī)

院，帶了午飯，為了緩解無聊，還用電腦下了很多集電視劇帶過去給

爸爸看，繼續(xù)吊水，因?yàn)橐后w太多，換得太頻繁，我學(xué)會(huì)了怎么換吊

瓶，前面吊的是一些小瓶，三十毫升的，很快滴完，只能一直密切注

意著，沒有液體立即去換，中間去送了一次血樣，檢驗(yàn)大廳里人來人

往，隨意一瞥，目光所及都是一些或焦躁或無奈的表情，不禁感嘆，

醫(yī)院真是一個(gè)令人哀傷的地方。(Onthefirstnight,atthe

insistenceofmymother,Iwenthome.Atnoonthenextday,I

rushedtothehospitalandbroughtlunch.Inordertorelieve

boredom,IalsodownloadedalotofTVseriesonthecomputer

andbroughtittomydadtowatch.Water,becausethereistoo

muchliquid,itischangedtoofrequently.Ihavelearnedhow

tochangethebottle.Therearesomesmallbottleshangingin

front,30ml,drippingquickly,Icanonlykeeppayingclose

attentiontoit,andchangeitimmediatelyifthereisnoliquid.

Abloodsamplewassentinthemiddleoftheinspectionhall.

Peoplecameandwentinthetesthall,andtheyglancedatrandom.

Theyalllookedatsomeanxiousorhelplessexpressions.I

couldn'thelpbutsighthatthehospitalisreallyasadplace.)

第二天，父親的同事，朋友陸續(xù)前來看望，父親的血小板也有了些許

提高，一切都是轉(zhuǎn)好的跡象，總體情況已經(jīng)比之前樂觀許多了，不過

從醫(yī)院的角度，一切病情從最壞的情況考慮，我還是收到了一份病危

通知書，由于母親之前已經(jīng)了解過了，我便簽了字，不得不說，第一

次簽這種字，心里很不好受，心中的責(zé)任感與對(duì)家庭的概念也有了很

大改變，不自覺地想到，如果一個(gè)人，我該如何生活，該何去何從。

(Thenextday,myfather'scolleaguesandfriendscameto

visitoneafteranother.Myfather'splateletshavealso

improvedabit.Everythingisshowingsignsofimprovement.The

overallsituationismuchmoreoptimisticthanbefore,butfrom

thehospitaUspointofview,everythinggoesfromtheworst.

Consideringthesituation,Istillreceivedacriticalillness

notice.Sincemymotherhadknownaboutitbefore,Isignedit.

IhavetosaythatthefirsttimeIsignedthiskindofword,

Ifeltveryuncomfortable,andmysenseofresponsibilityand

familyTheconceptof'I"hasalsochangedalot,andI

unconsciouslythinkofhowIshouldliveandwheretogoifI

amalone.)

第二天晚上我是在醫(yī)院的度過的，簡(jiǎn)易的躺椅，我還是睡得蠻好，有

可能真的累了吧，但是想到父親病情已有了極大改善，還是有堅(jiān)持下

去的動(dòng)力。早上六點(diǎn)不到，擔(dān)心不熟練而耽誤時(shí)間的實(shí)習(xí)生們已經(jīng)開

始準(zhǔn)備抽血了，連續(xù)幾天的檢查，由于父親血小板低，凝血能力弱，

已經(jīng)在肘窩處留下了三個(gè)大大的紅點(diǎn)。我出去買了早飯，八點(diǎn)醫(yī)生開

始查房，在父親病情穩(wěn)定下來，基本已度過危險(xiǎn)期后，我開始觀察醫(yī)

院病房中的點(diǎn)點(diǎn)滴滴，在這個(gè)我未來工作的環(huán)境中，我對(duì)一切都是頗

有興趣的，醫(yī)生和每個(gè)病人都要聊好一會(huì)，詢問病情，看檢查結(jié)果，

又是還會(huì)閑聊一兩句，有可能這個(gè)房間病人都還不是很重吧，氛圍還

是隨意而柔和的，感覺上醫(yī)患關(guān)系也遠(yuǎn)沒有想象的那么混亂，不過顯

然是我以點(diǎn)帶面了吧，應(yīng)該慶幸，我們是遇到了負(fù)責(zé)任醫(yī)護(hù)人員，父

親轉(zhuǎn)危為安，真要感謝這些白衣天使！(ThenextnightIspentthe

nightinthehospital.Inasimplerecliner,Istillsleptwell,

maybeIwasreallytired,butthinkingthatmyfather's

conditionhasgreatlyimproved,Istillhavethemotivationto

sticktoit.Beforesixinthemorning,theinternswhowere

worriedaboutbeingunskilledandwastingtimehadalready

beguntopreparefortheblooddraw.Afterseveraldaysof

examinations,duetothefather'slowplateletsandweakblood

clottingability,threelargeoneswereleftintheelbowsocket.

Reddot.Iwentouttobuybreakfast,andthedoctorstarted

roundsat8o'clock.Aftermyfather'sconditionstabilized

andhehadbasicallypassedthedangerousperiod,Ibeganto

observethebitsandpiecesinthehospitalward.Inthis

environmentofmyfuturework,IamTheyareallveryinterested.

Thedoctorandeachpatienthavetochatforawhile,asking

aboutthecondition,lookingatthee