1、,Love and Marriage,Group members:,Love is a kind of passion. People may fall in love with each other at first sight. Somebody says:falling in love returns us to the emotions of infancy and childhood. so people in love live a life in the present,they always dont think the future.,what is love ?,what

2、is love,Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking。 it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, alw

3、ays perseveres. Love never fails.,愛是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈； 愛是不嫉妒，不自夸，不張狂； 不做害羞的事，不求自己的益處； 不輕易發(fā)怒，不計算人的惡，不喜歡不義， 只喜歡真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。 愛是永無止息。,愿得一人心，白首不相離。 卓文君白頭吟 結發(fā)為夫妻，恩愛兩不疑。 蘇武 留別妻 死生契闊，與子成說。執(zhí)子之手，與子偕老。詩經(jīng) 有美人兮，見之不忘，一日不見兮，思之如狂。鳳求凰,Love Poems,How Do I Love Thee? by Elizabeth Barrett Browning How do I love thee

4、? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight For the ends of Being and ideal Grace. I love thee to the level of every days Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight. I love thee freely, as men strive for Right; I love thee purely

5、, as they turn from Praise. I love thee with the passion put to use In my old griefs, and with my childhoods faith. I love thee with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints - I love thee with the breath, Smiles, tears, of all my life! - and, if God choose, I shall but love thee better after deat

6、h.,我怎樣愛你 伊麗莎白芭蕾特布朗寧 我究竟怎樣愛你？讓我細數(shù)詳端。 我愛你直到我靈魂所及的深度、 廣度和高度，我在視力不及之處 摸索著存在的極致和美的理想。 我愛你像最樸素的日常需要一樣， 就像不自覺地需要陽光和蠟燭。 我自由地愛你，像人們選擇正義之路，我純潔地愛你，像人們躲避稱贊頌揚。 我愛你用的是我在昔日的悲痛里 用過的那種激情，以及童年的忠誠。 我愛你用的愛，我本以為早已失去 （與我失去的圣徒一同）； 我愛你用笑容、眼淚、呼吸和生命！只要上帝允許， 在死后我愛你將只會更加深情。,Love Poems,Once some sincere love suspended in front

7、of me 曾經(jīng)有一份真摯的愛情擺在我的面前 I didnt cherish it 我沒有珍惜 only to find myself extremely regret when it was lost 等到失去的時候才追悔莫及 The most painful thing is no more than this in this world 人世間最痛苦的事情莫過于此 If God could give me another chance, 如果上天能夠給我一個重新來過的機會 I will speak three words to that girl : I love you 我會對那個女孩

8、子說三個字:我愛你 if there is a time limit for this love 如果非要給這份愛加上一個期限 I hope it would be ten thousand year 我希望是一萬年。,Westward Journey (大話西游),what is marriage？,Marriage is a kind of responsibility. Marriage based on two peoples love. It is not only a love story. Once two people step into marriage, they take

9、 responsibilities for family.They live together and there can be conflicts, complaints and so many other trifles.,Love is holding hands in the street Marriage is holding arguments in the street Love is dinner for 2 in your favorite restaurant Marriage is Chinese take-out Love is cuddling （擁抱）on a so

10、fa Marriage is deciding on a sofa Love is talking about having children Marriage is talking about getting away from children Love is going to bed early Marriage is going to sleep early Love is a flickering flame Marriage is a flickering television Love is 1 drink and 2 straws （麥桿，吸管） Marriage is Don

11、t you think youve had enough!,The difference between love and marriage,the essence of marriage: Love Trust Respect Independence Common interest Communication,Marriage experts believe that communication is the main factor leading to a harmonious relationship between husband and wife.The purpose of co

12、mmunication is to know and understand each other.,The most important essence of marriage: Communication,How to communicate,Saying something good is better than saying something much . Listening is more important than speaking. Be completely honest is not better than leaving room for each other Appre

13、ciation and encouragement, tolerance and understanding.,如何溝通,說得多，不如說得好。 傾聽比說更重要。 完全坦白，不如留有余地。 欣賞與鼓勵、包容與諒解。,培養(yǎng)雙方共同的興趣愛好，尋找共同話題。 雙方發(fā)言的機會要均等。 憑借談話來了解對方。 全面了解對方 。,Increase common interests and find common topics Equal opportunities for both to speak Understand each other by talking A comprehensive understanding of each other,Communication skills between husband and wife,Here are some films about love story,Titanic Roman Holiday Sleepless in Seattle 50 First Dates City of Angels,泰坦尼克號 羅馬假日 西雅圖夜未眠 初戀50次 天使