1、親愛的兒子：時(shí)光匆匆，不經(jīng)意間，18年過去了，你從一個(gè)小嬰兒長(zhǎng)成了一個(gè)大小伙子，馬上就將進(jìn)入高三了，有很多話，老爸不好對(duì)你說，怕你嫌我啰嗦，今天老師建議給你寫封信，就借助這封信給你說幾句。你也知道，你老爸不善言語，平時(shí)話也不多，不善與人溝通，看著你一天天長(zhǎng)大，作為父母，怎么跟你溝通，怎么引導(dǎo)，讓我們倍感壓力，我們也只有不斷調(diào)整心態(tài)，不斷去適應(yīng)你的成長(zhǎng)。學(xué)習(xí)是很辛苦的，歷來都是如此，畢竟人生不可能不勞而獲，這世上也沒有隨隨便便的成功，有多大的付出，才有多大的收獲。高中階段是一生中最重要的階段，是人生必須經(jīng)歷的重要轉(zhuǎn)折期，它將決定下一階段新生活的起點(diǎn)，決定你今后的人生高度。相應(yīng)的，高三可能就是你一

2、生中最最辛苦的學(xué)習(xí)階段了，也是你成年之前的最后沖刺，而高考則是你無數(shù)次考試中最重要的考試，得認(rèn)真面對(duì)，不能馬虎。高三的學(xué)習(xí)生活辛苦，有無處不在的壓力和挑戰(zhàn)，但請(qǐng)你相信，父母將會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)和你在一起面對(duì)困難，支持你。畢竟，從小學(xué)到初中再到高中，你每一個(gè)階段的成長(zhǎng)都讓爸媽感到無比的驕傲和幸福，相信這也難不倒你。然后再說說你的高三，你的事情其實(shí)很專一，雖然苦但相對(duì)簡(jiǎn)單，因?yàn)榧彝ガ嵤虏恍枘悴傩?，?guó)家大事你管不上，電子游戲你不耍也有人玩。用這一年時(shí)間辛苦，成就你以后的人生。再則你要?jiǎng)谝萁Y(jié)合，一定要有一個(gè)健康的身體，只有強(qiáng)健的身體才能承受壓力，不至于在壓力面前出現(xiàn)內(nèi)分泌失調(diào)和各種不適，這是老爸對(duì)你很擔(dān)心的地方，

3、因你從小偏食，造成你現(xiàn)在瘦得跟竹竿似的。高三，緊張的學(xué)習(xí)和頻繁的考試會(huì)讓人身心俱疲，這些苦能預(yù)見，你要有心里準(zhǔn)備，要不斷調(diào)整心態(tài)，一定能勇敢地、積極地、樂觀地去面對(duì)它。同時(shí)，高三不僅拼智力，這點(diǎn)老爸不擔(dān)心，但更還要拼體力，如果心有余而力不足，累倒在即將達(dá)到的終點(diǎn)，那是太令人遺憾了。所以，一定要有一個(gè)良好的作息習(xí)慣和良好的飲食習(xí)慣，該吃就吃，該喝則喝，該休息就休息，不能過度地疲勞學(xué)習(xí)，如同老爸不能疲勞駕車一樣。作為愛你的父母，我門當(dāng)然愿你學(xué)習(xí)一流，你一直是父母的驕傲，但后來發(fā)覺學(xué)習(xí)的事兒我們管不了、管不好，就只能靠學(xué)校和老師和你自己了。即使我們認(rèn)識(shí)到了這一點(diǎn)，你老媽還是心焦，甚至脫離你自己實(shí)際的

4、想讓你是最優(yōu)秀的，這你得諒解，因?yàn)樗悄銒寢?。我們之所以這樣，我們更多的是從上大學(xué)、上好大學(xué)給一個(gè)人的一生帶來的影響的角度考慮的，在現(xiàn)實(shí)中國(guó)，我們的閱歷告訴了我們大學(xué)作為人生的一個(gè)起點(diǎn)對(duì)人一生的奠基作用。所以后來，我們也只能不斷調(diào)整心態(tài)，適應(yīng)你的成長(zhǎng)。以下是往年畢業(yè)生家長(zhǎng)的幾段話，說的很實(shí)際，很詼諧活潑：作為年輕人，不要過度抱怨高考制度和社會(huì)的不公，偶爾吐吐槽罵罵也就算了，比如：藝術(shù)特長(zhǎng)、體育特長(zhǎng)加分公平嗎？高考招生地域不同分公平嗎？農(nóng)村子女少數(shù)民族加分公平嗎？學(xué)生科技發(fā)明有多少是學(xué)生的作品？有多少改了民族改農(nóng)戶？有多少潛規(guī)則拼爹行為在起作用？所以，這世界沒有絕對(duì)的公平，也不要把這世界太理想化

5、，這個(gè)世界也有很多陰暗的地方，我們只能去適應(yīng)。我們這個(gè)社會(huì)，很多既得利益群體都在竭力維護(hù)這種存在，更多人在把進(jìn)入這個(gè)群體當(dāng)成一種追求和炫耀，任何一個(gè)試圖改變這種觀念和現(xiàn)實(shí)的想法都是徒勞無功的。中國(guó)已經(jīng)進(jìn)入權(quán)貴世襲、階層固化、社會(huì)活力缺乏的低俗媚權(quán)時(shí)代，所以，你想獲得你的尊嚴(yán)，改善生活境遇，就要邁好高考這步臺(tái)階。不要總想著不切實(shí)際的逆襲，寄希望于畢其功于一役。你只有三本的水平，你即使用二本的努力也逆襲不了北大清華。但，你有二本的水平，你用985的努力考個(gè)211卻是有可能實(shí)現(xiàn)的。如果你平淡于普班的不上不下，平淡于周測(cè)月考的稀里糊涂，平淡于平時(shí)的得過且過，高考那個(gè)晴天霹靂你就要做好承受的準(zhǔn)備。不打疲

6、勞戰(zhàn)，不自欺欺人，累了就休息休息，下課就出去轉(zhuǎn)一圈，換換科目換換腦子，作業(yè)做不完就要講究質(zhì)量，千萬別刻意應(yīng)付迎合。一兩道題不會(huì)很正常，腦子短路誰都會(huì)有，一兩次考不好別太計(jì)較，沒有人能放棄你，能放棄你的只有你自己，你放棄了現(xiàn)在就放棄了未來，智者都是自己超度自己。要有好的心態(tài)。別因?yàn)槔蠋熞淮尾唤?jīng)意的批評(píng)影響自己的情緒，更不能因?yàn)橥瑢W(xué)一句小視你的話而在意很久，不能因?yàn)橐淮蔚某晒Φ靡馔危荒芤驗(yàn)橐淮蔚氖д`而消沉不起，自古成敗皆一時(shí)，笑看高考能幾何。所以，千萬別忘了，你高中所有的積累都是為了高考這一役，不要被任何負(fù)面因素和環(huán)境所影響！再說一下心態(tài)，你內(nèi)心是快樂還是痛苦，決定因素在你內(nèi)心，而不在外部環(huán)

7、境，外部環(huán)境對(duì)你的影響只是暫時(shí)的，你內(nèi)心的心態(tài)才是永遠(yuǎn)的！股市里有句話：任何好消息或者壞消息市場(chǎng)都能消化，都改變不了股市的運(yùn)行趨勢(shì)，所不同的是波動(dòng)一天還是兩天的問題，波動(dòng)過后，該上漲還上漲，該下跌還下跌。不要輕易涉足感情，人生每一階段都有每一階段的任務(wù)，生澀的果子不好吃，早來的愛情留不住。你不知道自己能不能駕馭好，你也不知道對(duì)方能不能駕馭好，好好的把這些美好的感覺埋藏在內(nèi)心深處，如果有一天秋色滿眼的時(shí)候，緣分來了，你水到渠成再收獲這份純真。要管理好自己的生活，管理好自己的感情，要壓制控制這種生理沖動(dòng)。好了，兒子，馬上12點(diǎn)了，就寫這些，已經(jīng)不少了，只要你認(rèn)真閱讀對(duì)你都會(huì)有收獲。請(qǐng)你記住，人生的

8、精彩在于過程！而不是結(jié)果。你老爸2018.6.28Dear Son: Time hurriedly, inadvertently, 18 years passed, you from a small baby grew into a big lad, immediately will enter the senior year, there are a lot of words, Dad is not good to you, afraid you think I verbose, today the teacher suggested to write you a letter, with

9、the help of this letter to say a few words. You also know, your father is not very verbal, usually do not talk much, poor communication with people, watching you grow up day by day, as parents, how to communicate with you, how to guide, let us feel pressure, we only constantly adjust the mentality,

10、and constantly adapt to your growth. Learning is very hard, has always been so, after all, life can not be unearned, this world has no casual success, how much to pay, only how much harvest. High School is the most important stage in life, is an important transition period that life must go through,

11、 it will determine the starting point of the next stage of new life, determine your future life height. Correspondingly, the senior school may be the hardest learning stage of your life, but also your final sprint before adulthood, and the college entrance examination is your most important test in

12、countless exams, have to face seriously, can not be sloppy. Senior study life hard, there are ubiquitous pressure and challenges, but please believe that parents will always be with you to face difficulties, support you. After all, from primary school to junior high school, you grow every stage of t

13、he growth of parents feel extremely proud and happy, I believe it is difficult to fail you. Then say your senior high, your things are actually very single-minded, although bitter but relatively simple, because the family trivia do not need you to worry about, the affairs of the matter you can not c

14、ontrol, video games you do not play with others. With this year of hard work, the achievement of your future life. Then you have to work and leisure, must have a healthy body, only a strong body can withstand stress, not in the face of stress endocrine disorders and all kinds of discomfort, this is

15、dad is very worried about you, because you are a partial eclipse, caused you are now thin with bamboo pole. Senior High school, intense learning and frequent exams will make people physically and mentally exhausted, these hardships can be foreseen, you have to be prepared in the heart, to constantly

16、 adjust the mentality, will be brave, positive, optimistic to face it. At the same time, the senior not only spell intelligence, this father does not worry, but also to spell physical strength, if not enough, tired in the upcoming end, it is too regrettable. Therefore, we must have a good habit of r

17、est and good eating habits, should eat to eat, should drink, should rest on the rest, can not be overly tired to learn, as Dad can not be tired to drive. As the parents who love you, of course, I would like you to learn first-class, you have always been the pride of parents, but later found that the study of things we can not control, poor management, we can only rely on the school and teachers and your own. Even if we recognize this, your mother is still distraught, even out of your own actual want