1、Lesson 37Dont Fight!warm-upWatch a short video一、如果是自己的錯(cuò)，是自己造成的誤一、如果是自己的錯(cuò)，是自己造成的誤會或是自己的言行傷到了朋友會或是自己的言行傷到了朋友 不要猶豫，不要掙扎，真心誠意地不要猶豫，不要掙扎，真心誠意地向朋友道歉，說出自己的錯(cuò)，以及對對向朋友道歉，說出自己的錯(cuò)，以及對對方的歉意。相信朋友會原諒，兩人的友方的歉意。相信朋友會原諒，兩人的友誼會更加深厚，避免因?yàn)樾⌒〉恼`會失誼會更加深厚，避免因?yàn)樾⌒〉恼`會失去了一個(gè)朋友。去了一個(gè)朋友。When there is a dispute between you and your be

2、st friend, how do you deal with it?Two solutions:二、如果是對方的錯(cuò)，而對方也不主動跟二、如果是對方的錯(cuò)，而對方也不主動跟你和好你和好 遇到這種情況，我們都會很傷心，很遇到這種情況，我們都會很傷心，很焦慮，一方面是因?yàn)椴幌胧ミ@個(gè)朋友，焦慮，一方面是因?yàn)椴幌胧ミ@個(gè)朋友，另一方面是生氣對方不來跟自己道歉。這另一方面是生氣對方不來跟自己道歉。這種情況下，可以真誠地給朋友發(fā)一條短信種情況下，可以真誠地給朋友發(fā)一條短信，委婉得說明自己的心意，說自己不該那，委婉得說明自己的心意，說自己不該那么沖動，先說出自己的小小的不對，這時(shí)么沖動，先說出自己的小小的不

3、對，這時(shí)，朋友就會意識到自己的錯(cuò)有多大了，他，朋友就會意識到自己的錯(cuò)有多大了，他或者她就一定會回你的短信，向你道歉，或者她就一定會回你的短信，向你道歉，這樣，問題就解決了。這樣，問題就解決了。 其實(shí)，不論是誰對是錯(cuò)，千萬不要其實(shí)，不論是誰對是錯(cuò)，千萬不要因?yàn)樾∈聭Y氣，時(shí)間長了可能就失去了因?yàn)樾∈聭Y氣，時(shí)間長了可能就失去了這段友誼，所以，在不小心和朋友吵架這段友誼，所以，在不小心和朋友吵架后，要常懷一顆寬容的心，先找對方和后，要常懷一顆寬容的心，先找對方和好，并不是軟弱！而是一種豁達(dá)的待人好，并不是軟弱！而是一種豁達(dá)的待人處事的方式！處事的方式！Try to stop them from fig

4、hting. You should You shouldnt Why dont you ?When there is a dispute between two of your friends, how do you deal with it?3Listen to Jacks diary and complete it. (99)Dear Diary,I felt bad today. I had a _ with my friend Tom. Our baseball team _ the other team, and everyone was happy but Tom missed t

5、he game because he did not get my _. He was mad at me. I tried to explain, but he wouldnt listen. He almost _ me. I became _, too. We havent talked to each other since our fight. I am not happy at all.fightbeatmassagehitangryListen to the text and complete it. Steven didnt come to the basketball gam

6、e because he didnt know the game time was changed. He had a dispute with Danny and both of them had some execuses to explain.Steven said his computer broke down the day before yesterday and its being repaired. Danny said he tried calling him,but his phone was out of service.Read the lesson and answe

7、r the questions. (P 99) Did Dannys team win the game? 2.How did Danny try to reach Steven? 3.Who jumped in their dispute to separate them?Yes, he did. He beat the other team.Danny sent Steven an e-mail, called him and sent him a text message. Jenny and Brian.1. The other team was strong, but you bea

8、t them. team是集體名詞。集體名詞表示一是集體名詞。集體名詞表示一群人或一類物的結(jié)合體，如群人或一類物的結(jié)合體，如audience, committee, class(班級班級), family, government, public, team等。等。 這些集體名詞如視為這些集體名詞如視為“一個(gè)整體一個(gè)整體”，用單數(shù)形式的謂語動詞；，用單數(shù)形式的謂語動詞； 如將側(cè)重點(diǎn)放在組成集團(tuán)的成員上如將側(cè)重點(diǎn)放在組成集團(tuán)的成員上，則用復(fù)數(shù)形式的謂語動詞。，則用復(fù)數(shù)形式的謂語動詞。我的家庭是個(gè)幸福的家庭。我的家庭是個(gè)幸福的家庭。My family is a happy one.這個(gè)組總是按照領(lǐng)導(dǎo)

9、的指揮投票。這個(gè)組總是按照領(lǐng)導(dǎo)的指揮投票。The group always votes the way its leader tells it to vote.他們班正在上英語課。他們班正在上英語課。Their class are having an English class.你們隊(duì)總是打敗我們隊(duì)。你們隊(duì)總是打敗我們隊(duì)。Your team always beat ours.2. By the way, where was Steven today?by the way 順便問；附帶說順便問；附帶說(本句中意思本句中意思) 在途中；在路旁在途中；在路旁順便問問，你收到你母親的來信了嗎？順便問問

10、，你收到你母親的來信了嗎？By the way, have you received the letter from your mother?他們在途中停下來休息。他們在途中停下來休息。They stopped by the way to have a rest.3. Danny is just about to say something when he sees Steven running towards them carrying a basketball.be (seem) about to do 剛要；行將剛要；行將be about to do sth. when/be doing

11、 sth. when結(jié)構(gòu)中的結(jié)構(gòu)中的when要理解為要理解為“這時(shí)這時(shí)”。詹妮正要出去散步，這時(shí)電話響了。詹妮正要出去散步，這時(shí)電話響了。Jenny was about to go out for a walk when the phone rang.see sb. doing sth. 看到某人在做某事看到某人在做某事see sb. do sth. 看到某人做某事看到某人做某事(的全過程的全過程)listen to, hear, watch, notice等用法也同等用法也同see相同。相同。詹妮看到丹尼和史蒂文正在操場上打架。詹妮看到丹尼和史蒂文正在操場上打架。Jenny saw Dann

12、y and Steven fighting on the playground.我看見史蒂文用籃球打了丹尼的頭。我看見史蒂文用籃球打了丹尼的頭。I saw Steven hit Dannys head with a basketball.4. Well, my computer broke down the day before yesterday and its still being repaired.break down 損壞；出毛??；失效損壞；出毛??；失效be being done 結(jié)構(gòu)是進(jìn)行時(shí)的被動語態(tài)，表結(jié)構(gòu)是進(jìn)行時(shí)的被動語態(tài)，表示示“正在被正在被”很抱歉，我又遲到了，在路上我的自

13、行車壞了。很抱歉，我又遲到了，在路上我的自行車壞了。Im sorry to be late again, but my bike broke down on my way.你不能搬進(jìn)那所新房子，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在正在粉刷呢。你不能搬進(jìn)那所新房子，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在正在粉刷呢。You cannot move into the new house, for it is being painted now.see sb. doing sth. 看到某人在做某事看到某人在做某事see sb. do sth. 看到某人做某事看到某人做某事(的全過程的全過程)listen to, hear, watch, notice等用法

14、也同等用法也同see相同。相同。詹妮看到丹尼和史蒂文正在操場上打架。詹妮看到丹尼和史蒂文正在操場上打架。Jenny saw Danny and Steven fighting on the playground.我看見史蒂文用籃球打了丹尼的頭。我看見史蒂文用籃球打了丹尼的頭。I saw Steven hit Dannys head with a basketball.4. Well, my computer broke down the day before yesterday and its still being repaired.break down 損壞；出毛?。皇p壞；出毛??；失效

15、be being done 結(jié)構(gòu)是進(jìn)行時(shí)的被動語態(tài)，表結(jié)構(gòu)是進(jìn)行時(shí)的被動語態(tài)，表示示“正在被正在被”很抱歉，我又遲到了，在路上我的自行車壞了。很抱歉，我又遲到了，在路上我的自行車壞了。Im sorry to be late again, but my bike broke down on my way.你不能搬進(jìn)那所新房子，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在正在粉刷呢。你不能搬進(jìn)那所新房子，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在正在粉刷呢。You cannot move into the new house, for it is being painted now.5. I tried calling you, but your phone was

16、 out of service.out of 離開；脫離離開；脫離(本句中意思本句中意思) 從從里面；用里面；用制成制成魚離開誰就不能存活。魚離開誰就不能存活。Fish cannot live out of water.別往窗外看。別往窗外看。Dont look out of the window.很多東西是用竹子制成的。很多東西是用竹子制成的。Many things are made out of bamboo.6. Danny almost hits Steven, but Brian and Jenny jump in to separate them.jump in 參與；欣然加入?yún)⑴c

17、；欣然加入(本句中意思本句中意思) 跳入；一步進(jìn)入跳入；一步進(jìn)入(汽車等汽車等)看到我們正在玩游戲時(shí)，杰克馬上跟我看到我們正在玩游戲時(shí)，杰克馬上跟我們一起玩了起來。們一起玩了起來。When he saw us playing games, Jack jumped in immediately.快進(jìn)來，湯姆。車?yán)镉心愕淖弧？爝M(jìn)來，湯姆。車?yán)镉心愕淖弧ump in, Tom. Theres a seat for you in the car.Tick the correct answers to complete the sentences. (P 99) He is a gentleman

18、. He is always _. polite rude2. The cards of _ colours are mixed together. Can you separate them? same different3. This TV _. We need someone to repair it. worked well broke down4. Li Ling leaves you a message. This means she wants to _. tell you something meet you at once5. He beat me at chess. I _

19、. lost won6. Im very _ because I missed lunch. hungry full. 根據(jù)漢語提示完成句子。根據(jù)漢語提示完成句子。 We have absolute confidence in _(勝利勝利). 2. This hotel cant be matched for food and _ (服務(wù)服務(wù)). 3. We _ (分開分開) at the airport.4. The soldier _ (表現(xiàn)表現(xiàn)) with great courage.5. My bicycle has to be _ (修理修理). 1.6. He has _ (檢查

20、檢查) the copy against the original.victoryserviceseparatedbehavedrepairedchecked. 翻譯下列句子。翻譯下列句子。1. 他的一家人都在等他。他的一家人都在等他。 His family are all waiting for him.2. 順便問一下，你在我背后做什么事嗎？順便問一下，你在我背后做什么事嗎？ By the way, have you done anything behind my back?3. 比賽即將開始。突然下起了大雨。比賽即將開始。突然下起了大雨。 The match is about to be

21、gin when it rains heavily.4. 我看見他正在寫作文。我看見他正在寫作文。 I see him writing composition. 5. 那座橋在上次地震中坍塌了。那座橋在上次地震中坍塌了。 The bridge broke down in last earthquake.6. 讓我加入進(jìn)去并做好我們所討論的工作。讓我加入進(jìn)去并做好我們所討論的工作。 Let me jump in and do the work as we discussed.7. 我校正在舉行運(yùn)動會。我校正在舉行運(yùn)動會。 The sports meeting is being held in o

22、ur school. Listen to Jacks diary and complete it. (99)Dear Diary,I felt bad today. I had a _ with my friend Tom. Our baseball team _ the other team, and everyone was happy but Tom missed the game because he did not get my _. He was mad at me. I tried to explain, but he wouldnt listen. He almost _ me

23、. I became _, too. We havent talked to each other since our fight. I am not happy at all.fightbeatmassagehitangryTalk1Talk about it with your partner and discuss how to solve it successfully.Have you ever had a serious dispute with a friend? what happened? Talk about it with your partner and discuss

24、 how to solve it successfully.Talk2ReadingHere are five suggestions to avoid conflicts. Bite your tongue rather than say something hash in the heat of the moment that we dont mean. Remember the old saying, if you dont have anything nice to say then dont say anything at all.Here are five suggestions

25、to avoid conflicts. Be willing to listen because sometimes that is the easiest way to resolve a conflict .We cant fight feelings and feelings are not wrong .You cant chang the way that a person feels but we can acknowledge others feelings and try to understand them. Here are five suggestions to avoid conflicts. Set boundaries because everyone need those no matter how close the relationship maybe .Respect each others privacy and space .Sure ,we may share a lot but it is not a necessity to know everything that he does at every moment.It is not fair and will surel