Developingideas

Unit3FamilytiesLearningobjectives1.FindouttheproblembetweenTinaandhermotherbylistening.2.Changethewayofcommunicationbyusingsofteninglanguage.3.Solvethefamilyproblemsbysofteninglanguage.Asilentlove

Whocanyouturntoinordertosolveproblemsinyourfamily?brother/sisterparentsgrandparentsInsideHelpOutsideHelpGuesswhoishelpingthefamily?Manycountriesofferfamilyhotlinestogiveadviceaboutfamilyrelationships.Guesswhoishelpingthefamily?SchoolteacherFamilyhotlinePolicewomanPleasereadyourtextbookinthepage53DIDYOUKNOW?Situation1:Expertistalkingaboutafamilyproblem.1.Whatisthespeakertalkingabout?a."Problemparents”bring“problemchildren".b.Therearemoreandmore"problemparents".c.“Problemparents”needagoodtalk.cListenandanswerTina’smotherParentswhocausesomeproblemstothefamily.Situation1:Expertistalkingaboutafamilyproblem.ProblemTina'smotherisanactressata

_________

.

Shedressesupasa_________.Itisn'tcoolforTina.Hermotheroftengoesto________herupinthisdress.

Feeling

not_________

Advice

Haveagood_________withhermother.parkqueenpickhappytalkListenandcompletethechartSowhatdoesTinatalktohermother?Situation2:Tinaishavingatalkwithhermother.Situation2:Tinaishavingatalkwithhermother.timelovelittlelaughshurtgladTinaishavingatalkwithhermother.Whydotheyhavethisproblem?IsiteasyforTinatosolvetheproblem?Situation2:Tinaishavingatalkwithhermother.Whydotheyhavethisproblem?Tina’smotherIdon’thave_____.Idon’twanttobe____.TinaIt’stoo____________.I'mnota____girlanymore.Everyonelooksatyouand_____.Reasontimelateeye-catchinglittlelaughsHarmonyinafamilymakeseverythingsuccessful.Howdotheysolvethisproblem?Mom,areyoucomingtopickmeuptomorrow?Ofcourse,Tina.Fiveo’clockattheschoolgate.Well,butcanyouchangeyourchangyourclothesbeforeyoucome?Why?Idon’thavetimetochangafterwork.Idon’twanttobelate._______________________________Butthatistooeye-catching.OhTina,don’tyoulovemyqueen’sdress?Notnow,I’mnotalittlegirlanymore.Exeryonelooksatyouandlaughs.______________________________NowIsee.IwillchangemyclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Thankyou,mom.Ihopeyou’renothurt.I’mgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout.I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.Theysovletheprobleminapeacefulway.softeninglanguage

istooeyecatching.Mum:Oh,Tina.Don'tyoulovemyqueen'sdress?Tina:Notnow.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore.Everyonelooksatyouandlaughs.Mum:I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.NowIsee.IwillchangemyclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Tina:Thankyou,Mum.Ihopeyou'renothurt.Mum:Iamgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.Tina:Mum,areyoucomingtopickme

uptomorrow?Mum:Ofcourse,Tina.Fiveo'clockattheschoolgate.Tina:Well..Butcanyouchangeyourclothesbefore

youcome?Mum:Why?Idon'thavetime

tochangeafterwork.I

don'twant

to

belate.Tina:It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout.Butthat

istooeye-catching.Mum:Oh,Tina.Don'tyou

lovemyqueen'sdress?Tina:Notnow.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore.Everyonelooksat

youandlaughs.Mum:I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.NowIsee.I

willchange

myclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Tina:Thankyou,Mum.Ihopeyou'renothurt.Mum:I

amgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.LearningtolearnSofteninglanguage

Sometopicsmayhurtpeople'sfeelingseasily.WecantakeasoftertoneanduseexpressionslikeI'msorry,but..andIt'sabitdifficulttotalkabout..tosoftenourlanguage.Whatcansofteninglanguagedo?

Tip1:★Showyourworries★Showyourcare★ShowyourloveImitate:Payattentiontoyourtone(語氣)WhatelsemakesTina’smotheracceptheradviceeasily?

istooeyecatching.Mum:Oh,Tina.Don'tyoulovemyqueen'sdress?Tina:Notnow.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore.Everyonelooksatyouandlaughs.Mum:I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.NowIsee.IwillchangemyclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Tina:Thankyou,Mum.Ihopeyou'renothurt.Mum:Iamgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.Tina:Mum,areyoucomingtopickme

uptomorrow?Mum:Ofcourse,Tina.Fiveo'clockattheschoolgate.Tina:Well..Butcanyouchangeyourclothesbefore

youcome?Mum:Why?Idon'thavetime

tochangeafterwork.I

don'twant

to

belate.Tina:It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout.Butthat

istooeye-catching.Mum:Oh,Tina.Don'tyou

lovemyqueen'sdress?Tina:Notnow.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore.Everyonelooksat

youandlaughs.Mum:I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.NowIsee.I

willchange

myclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Tina:Thankyou,Mum.Ihopeyou'renothurt.Mum:I

amgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.

Need

Reason

Feelings

Who:MikeandhisfatherProblem:ThefatherisalwaysbusyanddoesnotspendmuchtimewithMike.？HowdotheysolvetheproblemSituation3:WorkinpairsRole-playUsefulexpression★It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout,but...★Ihopeyouarenothurt.★I'mgladyoutoldmethis.★I'msorry...★Well,butcanyou...★Thankyou.Dad,haveyougotaminute?Sure,Mike.Whatisit?

It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout,but_____________I'msorry.ButIdon'thavetimeforthat.Ihavetowork.Yes,Iunderstand.ButnowIfeel__________Sorry,Ihopeyouarenothurt.Let's________________nextweek._______________I'mlookingforwardtoit.Tip2:★Showhisneed★Showhisfeelingsandreasons★UsesofteninglanguageTina:Mum,areyoucomingtopickme

uptomorrow?Mum:Ofcourse,Tina.Fiveo'clockattheschoolgate.Tina:Well..Butcanyouchangeyourclothesbefore

youcome?Mum:Why?Idon'thavetime

tochangeafterwork.I

don'twant

to

belate.Tina:It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout.Butthat

istooeyecatching.Mum:Oh,Tina.Don'tyou

lovemyqueen'sdress?Tina:Notnow.I'mnotalittlegirlanymore.Everyonelooksat

youandlaughs.Mum:I'msorry.Ididn'tknowthat.NowIsee.I

willchange

myclothesbeforeIpickyouup.Tina:Thankyou,Mum.Ihopeyou'renothurt.Mum:I

amgladyoutoldmethis,mygirl.Situation4:WorkinpairsCanyousolvetheproblemsinyourfamilywithsofteninglanguage?

★It'sabitdifficulttotalkabout,but...★Ihopeyouarenothurt.★I'mgladyoutoldmethis.★I'msorry...★Well,butcanyou...★Thankyou.EvaluationCriteriastarsIcandescribemyfamilyquestionclearlyIcansolveproblemswithsofteninglanguage.Icangiveadvicetomyclassmates.Situation4:WorkingroupsA:_________,haveyougotaminute?B:Sure.Whatisit?

A:_____________,but_____________.B:I'msorry.But_____________.A:ButnowIfeel_____________.B:Sorry,Ihopeyouarenothurt.Let's___________.A:Really?Thankyou.Tip3:★Showyourneed★Showyourfeelingsandreasons★UsesofteninglanguageHarmonyinafamilymakeseverythingsuccessful.★Whatdoesthegirlwanttobuy?★Doesshegetit?Herfather'stimeYes,shedoes.WatchandanswerTherearesomequestionsbetweenTinaandhermother,doesthatmeantheydon’tloveeachother?

Doesthatmeantheydon’tloveeachother?ThinkSofteninglanguage

Howtocommunicatewithourfamily?Listentoeachother.Openyourmind.Voiceyourtruefeelings.Equaltoeachother.FurtherthinkingLOVEHarmonyinafamilymakeseverythingsuccessful.Harmonyinafamilymakeseverythingsuccessful家和萬事興ChecklistEvaluationCriteriaSelf-evaluationIcanreadandunderstandthesedialogues.Icanplayaroleandsolveproblems.Iknowtheadvantageofusingsofteninglanguage.Tina:Mum,areyoucomingtopickme

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