1、Character Building品格的培養(yǎng),I.Looking for good qualities 尋找良好的品質(zhì),I.Looking for good qualities 尋找良好的品質(zhì) A.Qualities needed to be successful as a: 要想成功做好以下角色，良好品質(zhì)是 必須的：,Looking for good qualities 尋找良好的品質(zhì) A.Qualities needed to be successful as a: 要想成功做好以下角色，良好品質(zhì)是 必須的： 1.Business leader 商業(yè)領(lǐng)袖,2.Political lead

2、er 政治領(lǐng)袖,2.Political leader 政治領(lǐng)袖 3.Professor 教授,2.Political leader 政治領(lǐng)袖 3.Professor 教授 4.Husband/Wife 丈夫/妻子,2.Political leader 政治領(lǐng)袖 3.Professor 教授 4.Husband/Wife 丈夫/妻子 5.Parent 父母,B.Qualities 品質(zhì) 1.Business leader 商業(yè)領(lǐng)袖 spirit of adventure good communicator responsibility toward society keep promises f

3、lexible sensitive toward opportunities good decision maker love others organized Good psychological quality,B.Qualities 品質(zhì) 2.Political leader 政治領(lǐng)袖 Broad mind for the situation Rational mind Courageous Very high EQ Good at judging the environment Able to balance the situation Firm conviction Ambition

4、 so he can bear years of stress Endurance Very deep thinking Good at speaking Good at social relationships,B.Qualities 品質(zhì) 3.Professor 教授 Patient Passion Gentle Is not contradictory Polite Ability Just Shouldnt take consideration of all the fame Involved in the scholarship of what he is stydying Dili

5、gent,B.Qualities 品質(zhì) 4. Husband/wife 丈夫/妻子 Honest Understand each other Trust each other Patient full of love Sense of responsibility Tolerance Fidelity Considerate Equality Courage to strive for a better life for the family Willing to share happiness and hardship together,B.Qualities 品質(zhì) 5. Parent 父母

6、 Respect the child Love and care, patience Responsibility Devote ourselves Long plan of the child Ability to communicate Tolerant To be an example Not to spoil Not to make the child our own possession To give free time Dont quarrel before or divorce Energetic, optimistic, wise, open-minded,II.How to

7、 develop good character 怎樣塑造良好的品格,II.How to develop good character 怎樣塑造良好的品格 A.Character = a life that demonstrates virtues and does the right things consistently 品格 = 展現(xiàn)美德和始終如一做 好事的生活方式,II.How to develop good character 怎樣塑造良好的品格 A.Character = a life that demonstrates virtues and does the right thin

8、gs consistently 品格 = 展現(xiàn)美德和始終如一做 好事的生活方式 1.Virtue = personal quality 美德 = 個(gè)人品質(zhì),2.Aristotle: “Character: a life of right conduct which is applied in relation to other persons and in relation to oneself.” 亞里士多德：“品格：有德行的 生活(包括與他人相關(guān)的好品德 和與自己相關(guān)的好品德。) ”,2.Aristotle: “Character: a life of right conduct whic

9、h is applied in relation to other persons and in relation to oneself.” 亞里士多德：“品格：有德行的 生活(包括與他人相關(guān)的好品德 和與自己相關(guān)的好品德。) ” 3.The “Golden Rule” 黃金法則,B.Doing what is right 做正確的事,Talk bad things about others but try to forgive others love is giving, think about what we give to others be sincere, thinking abou

10、t others. Doubt about it because if you want others to respect you, you must be equal, could compromise individual to individual easier than state to state Even if enemies, consider them friends If you try your best, others may treat you well. Maybe you will have a good result Our relationship with

11、others we should praise them, because you want them to praise others. Can be one-sided, dont receive what we want in return Need to do something right! We feel we are in a trap we give love without anything in return. First do a test to see how they respond!,B.Doing what is right 做正確的事 1.Doing what

12、is right will usually pass the test of two questions: 通過(guò)下面兩個(gè)問(wèn)題來(lái)判斷事情 是否做得得當(dāng)：,B.Doing what is right 做正確的事 1.Doing what is right will usually pass the test of two questions: 通過(guò)下面兩個(gè)問(wèn)題來(lái)判斷事情 是否做得得當(dāng)： Is it consistent with the Golden Rule? “Would I want someone to treat me this way? 是否與黃金法則一致？ ”我愿意別人這樣對(duì)我嗎？“

13、,Do I think other people should act this way in a similar situation? 別人在類似情況下也會(huì)這 么做嗎？,Do I think other people should act this way in a similar situation? 別人在類似情況下也會(huì)這 么做嗎？ 2.Good character, doing the right things consistently, does not happen naturally. 好的品格就是始終如一的做好事，這不是自然而成的。,What are the barriers

14、to doing what is right in this culture? 當(dāng)今社會(huì)文化中，做好事的障礙有哪些？ We want to same face, dont want others to think badly about us, misunderstand us. Dont want to be cheated. We have a rooted thoughts of different social levels emphasizes competition Competition, large country, we have to give up virtues che

15、at in order to win We are confined and only concentrate on our issues dont consider lower classes No belief therefore no moral standards Think that others will do it social pressures despise people who do good things Without recognition, no motivation Younger generation as single children No complet

16、e laws Know what they should do, but dont have a leader to tell you what to do.,3.Why it is difficult to do the “right” thing 做好事為什么這么難,3.Why it is difficult to do the “right” thing 做好事為什么這么難 You might be misunderstood. 你可能會(huì)被誤解,3.Why it is difficult to do the “right” thing 做好事為什么這么難 You might be mis

17、understood. 你可能會(huì)被誤解 You might be lonely if others do not share your decision. 如果別人不認(rèn)可你的決定 時(shí)，你可能會(huì)孤獨(dú),You might have to give up some pleasure. 你可能必須放棄一些快樂(lè),You might have to give up some pleasure. 你可能必須放棄一些快樂(lè) It might be painful or uncomfortable (for you or for others). 對(duì)你或者對(duì)別的人，這可能會(huì)很痛苦或很不舒服,III.Two fac

18、tors in developing good character 塑造良好品格的兩個(gè)因素 Ought is can will,III.Two factors in developing good character 塑造良好品格的兩個(gè)因素 A.Act the way you want to be and soon you will be the way you act. (Develop good habits) 以你期待的方式去做，不久這就會(huì)成 為你做事的方式（養(yǎng)成良好的習(xí)慣）,B.You develop good character by consistently making the right choices in diffic