GenerationGap,Aconversationbetweenamomandherson,Mom:whyareyousoindocilethatignoremywords?Son:Idonnotthinkyouareright,youalwayscannotunderstandme.Mom:Youarewrong.youshouldobeymyinstructions!,Loading,So,whatisthe“generationgap”?,Generationgapmeansthedifferentopinionsbetweenthechildandtheparentswhenthechildisgrowingup.Oncethegenerationgapisbeingformed,itisnoteasytomelt.,Generationgapreferstothedistanceandcontradictionbetweentheoldandtheyouth.Itsacommonphenomenonthatexitseverywhereintheworldandinfluencesboththeoldandtheyouth.Generallyspeaking,generationgapresultsindifferentunderstandingandappreciationofthegreatandconstantchangesoftheworld,differentreactiontonewthings,anddifferentattitudestotraditionprinciplesandbeliefs.Therefore,wemaysaywheretherearetheoldandtheyouth,thereisthegenerationgap.Generationgapisnatural,butveryinfluential.Ifwecannotdealwithitappropriately,thegapwillbegreaterandgreaterandconsequentlyaffecttheworkandtherelationbetweentheoldandtheyoung.,Nowadays,theproblemsofgenerationgapbecomemoreandmoreserious.Thepoorrelationshipbetweenparentsandtheirchildrenisverycommon.,Why?,Whydoesithappen?Aretheseproblemscausedbythebusyparents?Or,dotheharsh(嚴(yán)厲的，殘酷的)familyrulesaffecttherelationshipofparentsandchildren?,Firstly,inmostofthefamiliesinChina，bothoftheparentshavetogooutforworkinordertoearnmoremoneytoprovidebetterenvironmentfortheirlovelychildren.Unfortunately,thiscausestherarecommunicationbetweenthemandtheirchildren,sincetheseparentsalwaystakerestduringleisuretime.Theseparentsandchildrencannotknowdeeplyabouteachotherandfriction(摩擦，沖突)willappear.,Secondly,parentswhoasktheirchildrentobeabsolutelyobedient(絕對(duì)服從的)arealsooneofthegravecausesofthegenerationgapbetweenthem!Theydonottrytocommunicatewiththeirchildrenastheirequals.Thus,misinterpretation(誤解)ofthemmayeasilyoccur.,Myparentsareover30yearsolderthanme.So,theresawidegenerationgapbetweenthemandme.Ithinktheyaretooconservative（保守）.Forexample,sometimestheydontliketheclothesIwear,themusicIlisten,theviewpointsIpose(提出）andsoon.Whatsworse,theyhardlyallowmetogotokaraoke(唱K)withmyclassmatesorchatwithboysonline,whichreallymakesmefrustratedandannoyed.,Thegenerationgapbetweenmyparentsandme,BornindifferentperiodsExposedtodifferentthingsLackofcommunication,Therefore,wedifferonhabitsandattitudestowardslife,reasons?,Doyouhavesomesimilarexperiences?,Howtobridgethegenerationgap?,Isitdifficult?Moreway?,Respect,Firstly,showrespect.Themutualrespectcanplayanimportantroleinavoidingconflicts.,Respect,Listening,Secondly,listenmorethantalk.Itsnodoubtthatitisaveryefficientwaytokeeptheconversationlonger.,Humorous,Atlast,keephumors,thiscanmakethetalkfriendly.Itisaveryefficientwaytokeeptheconversationlonger.,Actually,therearemanyfilmsaboutgenerationgap.,Thereforewecanlearnhowtosolvethisproblemwhenwatchingmovies.,MoviesIwillsharewithyou,遠(yuǎn)山我是你爸爸太陽照常升起鋼的琴陽光燦爛的日子小孩不壞(Inotstupidtoo),TomandJerrywasborninamiddleclassfamily.Theirparentsarekneedeepinearningmoneywithanopinionthatitsperfecttofulfillchildrensmaterialdemand,andtheyseldomhavetimetocommunicatewiththekid.However,theydidntknowthatchildrenneedmorecareandpraisefromparents.ChengCai,Tomsclassmate,alsohasproblemsincommunicatingwithhisfather.Hisfatherwasinlowclass,andhehadbeenputintoprison.Inordertopreventhissonfollowinghim,hewasstrictwithChenCai,whichmadethemfistwitheachother.,Perhaps,themostrequisites(必要的)thingsistheunderstandingbetweenparentsandchildren.,Despitethefactthatparentsmaybeworriedaboutthegenerationgapbetweentheirchildrenandthemselves,butasweallknow,withtimegoingby,childrengrad