1、男：??！你看起來好漂亮，好年輕??！女（嬌羞，手足無措）： 你說什么??！別拿我開玩笑了！男：我木有??！我說的是真話?。∨ㄓ悬c相信，又不敢說這是事實）：別醬紫，大家都幾十歲的人了！男：你別那么低調(diào)嘛！漂亮就是漂亮啊！這有什么！女：懶地理你啦！Appearance: among female , male to female男（迎面而來，自以為笑得玉樹臨風(fēng)）：小姐你真漂亮！女（他誰??？！流氓？閃身后撤）：你，你要干嘛？！Ability and achievements: superior and lower 組織上很看重你喲！領(lǐng)導(dǎo)我也對你有信心喲！Second person （第二人稱）：你的房子

2、真不錯！Implicit compliment：你丈夫真有福氣！我媽說你做飯好吃，果然如她所說啊。DenialSelf-deprecating （自我否定）Disgrace oneself to honor others甲：你讀書好刻苦啊！乙：我這是笨鳥先飛，您才是真學(xué)霸！Others-orientationFeudal Hierarchy systemComplimenting Behavior AmericaCaseA: Bob, you really do a good job! Could you give us some advice about it?B:Thanks.(smile

3、) I am glad that I can help.Different from Chinese, in the US , as a representative of the western culture, they consider more about the followings: The independent willThe ability of the personThe personal self expressionThe self-confidenceTarget of American compliment A serious judgment for ones a

4、bilities and achievements Usually appear between the upper and lower levels people of different social statusJudge the work of their subordinates(下下屬屬)Expression of American complimentFirst person(第一人稱第一人稱)Personal feelings(1) I think your coat suits you. (2) I like your hair style. (3) I am so proud of you. Compliment Education of American101 encouragement words to encourage the children up: Way To Go 就該這么做就該這么做Youre Special 你不一般你不一般I Knew You Could Do It 我知道你我知道你能做能做Im Proud of You 我為你而驕傲我為你而驕傲Youre On Top Of It 你是數(shù)一數(shù)二你是數(shù)一數(shù)二的的Youre C