幸福是一段旅程Wealwaysconvinceourselvesthatlifewillbebetterafterwegetmarried,haveababy,thenanother.Thenwearefrustratedthatthekidsaren'toldenoughandwe'llbemorecontentwhentheyare.Afterthatwe'refrustratedthatwehaveteenagerstodealwith.Wewillcertainlybehappywhentheyareoutofthatstage.我們總是相信，等我們結(jié)了婚，生了孩子生活會更美好。等有了孩子，我們又因為他們不夠大而煩惱，想等他們大些時，我們就會開心了?？傻人麄冞M(jìn)人青少年時期，我們還是同樣地苦惱，于是又相信等他們過了這一階段，幸福就會到來。Wealwaystellourselvesthatourlifewillbecompletewhenourspousegetshisorheracttogether,whenwegetanicercar,andareabletogoonanicevacation,whenweretire.Thetruthis,there'snobettertimethanrightnow.Ifnotnow,when?Ourlifewillalwaysbefilledwithchallenges.It'sbesttoadmitthistoourselvesanddecidetobehappyanyway.我們總是告訴自己，等夫妻間任一方肯于合作，等我們擁有更好的車，等我們能去度一次美妙的假期，等我們退休后，我們的生活一定會完美的。而事實的真相是，沒有任何時刻比現(xiàn)在更寶貴。倘若不是現(xiàn)在，又會是何時?我們的生活每時每刻都會有挑戰(zhàn)。最好是讓自己接受這一事實，無論如何使自己保持快樂的心境。OneofmyfavoritequotescomesfromAlfredSouza.Hesaid,Foralongtimeithadseemedtomethatlifewasabouttobegin-reallife.Buttherewasalwayssomeobstacleintheway,somethingtobegottenthroughfirst,someunfinishedbusiness,timestilltobeserved,adebttobepaid.Thenlifewouldbegin.Atlastitdawnedontomethattheseobstaclesweremylife.Thisperspectivehashelpedmetoseethatthereisnowaytohappiness.我很欣賞艾爾弗雷德?蘇澤的一段名言。他說：長期以來，我都覺得生活--真正的生活似乎即將開始?？墒强倳龅侥撤N障礙，如得先完成一些事情。沒做完的工作，要奉獻(xiàn)的時間，該付的債，等等。之后生活才會開始。最后我醒悟過來了，這些障礙本身就是我的生活。這一觀點讓我意識到?jīng)]有什么通往幸福的道路。Happinessistheway.Sotreasureeverymomentthatyouhave.Andrememberthattimewaitsfornoone.Sostopwaitinguntilyoufinishschool,untilyougobacktoschool;untilyougetmarried,untilyougetdivorced;untilyouhavekids,untilyourkidsleavehome;untilyoustartwork,untilyouretire;untilyougetanewcarorhome;untilspring;untilyouarebornagaintodecidethatthereisnobettertimethanrightnowtobehappy幸福本身就是路，所以，珍惜你擁有的每一刻，且記住時不我待不要再作所謂的等待;你上完學(xué)，等你再回到學(xué)校;等你結(jié)婚或離婚;等你有了孩子或孩子長大離開家;等你開始工作或等你退休;等你有了新車或新房;等春天來臨;等你有幸再來世上走一遭才明白此時此刻最應(yīng)快樂Happinessisajourney,notadestination.So,Worklikeyoudon'tneedmoney,幸福是一個旅程，不是終點站;所以工作吧，如同不需要金錢一樣;Lovelikeyou'veneverbeenhurt,Anddancelikenoone'swatching.去愛吧，如同從未受過傷害一樣;跳舞吧，如同沒有人注視一樣。tolove,likeneverbeenhurt,todance,likenooneappreciate;去愛吧，就像不曾受過傷一樣;跳舞吧，像沒有人會欣賞一樣。tosing,