AudreyHepburnBeautyTips美麗的秘訣Forattractivelips，speakwordsofkindness.魅力的雙唇，在于親切而友善的言談。Forlovelyeyes,seekoutthegoodinpeople.迷人的眼睛，在于善于挖掘他人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)。Foraslimfigure，shareyourfoodwiththehungry.苗條的身姿，在于你是否能與饑餓的人共享你的食物。Forbeautifulhair，letachildrunhisorherfingersthroughitonceaday.美麗的秀發(fā)，在于孩子們每天的撫觸。Forpoise,walkwiththeknowledgethatyouneverwalkalone.優(yōu)美的姿態(tài)，在于你是否能與知識同行。People,evenmorethanthings,havetoberestored,recived,reclaimedandredeemed;neverthrowoutanyone.Remember,ifyoueverneedahelpinghand,you'llfindthemattheendofeachofyourarms.Asyougrowolder,youwilldiscoverthatyouhavetwohands,oneforhelpingyourself,theotherforhelpingothers.人要高于萬物，必須不斷地自我修整、自我反省、自我成長、自我更新，而并非向他人抱怨。要時刻銘記，如果遇到難題，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)最終還需自己解決。當(dāng)你慢慢成長，就會日漸發(fā)現(xiàn)，你的兩只手，一只用來幫自己，另一只則用來幫助他人。Thebeautyofawomanisnotintheclothesshewears,thefigurethatshecarries,orthewayshecombsherhair.女人的魅力并不在于她的衣著、身材，或是她的發(fā)型。Thebeautyofawomanmustbeseenforminhereyes,beacausethatisthedoorwaytoherheart,theplacewhereloveresides.女人的魅力應(yīng)從她們的眼神中獲得，因?yàn)檠劬κ峭ㄍ撵`的窗戶，是愛的發(fā)源地。Thebeautyofawomanisnotinafacialmode,butthetruebeautyinawomanisreflectedinhersoul.Itisthecaringthatshelovinglygives,thepassionthatsheshows.女人的魅力不在于外表，而在于她的心靈，在于親切的給予和激情的釋放。Thebeautyofawomangrowswiththepassingyears.女人的魅力會隨著歲月而不斷增長。感悟：漂亮或許是上蒼的賜予，而美麗則是歲月的磨礪和自身的修煉所成。因?yàn)檎嬲拿利愂浅鲎杂谡媲榈牧髀?、溫柔的情態(tài)和無私的奉獻(xiàn)。BorntoWin生而為贏Eachhumanbeingisbornassomethingnew,somethingthatneverexistedbefore.Eachisbornwiththecapacitytowinatlife.Eachpersonhasauniquewayofseeing,hearing,touching,tastingandthinking.Eachhashisorherownuniquepotentials---capabilitiesandlimitations.Eachcanbeasignificant,thinking,aware,andcreativebeing---aproductiveperson,awinner.人皆生而為新，為前所未有之所存在；人皆生而能贏。人皆有其特立獨(dú)行之方式去審視，聆聽，觸摸，品味及思考，因而都具備獨(dú)特潛質(zhì)-能力和局限。人皆能舉足輕重，思慮明達(dá)，洞察秋毫，富有創(chuàng)意，成就功業(yè)。Theword“winner”and“l(fā)oser”havemanymeanings.Whenwerefertoapersonasawinner,wedonotmeanonewhomakessomeoneelselose.Tous,awinnerisonewhorespondsauthenticallybybeingcredible,trustworthy,responsive,andgenuine,bothasanindividualandasamemberofasociety.“成者”與“敗者”含義頗多。談及成者我們并非指令他人失意之人。對我們而言，成者必為人守信，值得信賴，有求必應(yīng)，態(tài)度誠懇，或?yàn)閭€人，或?yàn)樯鐣粏T皆能以真誠回應(yīng)他人。 Winnersdonotdedicatedtheirlivestoaconceptofwhattheyimaginetheyshouldbe;rather,theyarethemselvesandassuchdonotusetheirenergyputtingonaperformance,maintainingpretenceandmanipulatingothers.Theyareawarethatthereisadifferencebetweenbeinglovingandactingloving,betweenbeingstupidandactingstupid,betweenbeingknowledgeableandactingknowledgeable.Winnersdonotneedtohidebehindamask. 成者行事并不拘泥于某種信條，即便是他們認(rèn)為應(yīng)為其奉獻(xiàn)一生的理念；而是本色行事，所以并不把精力用來表演，保持偽裝或操控他人。他們明了愛與裝家，愚蠢與裝傻，博學(xué)與賣弄之間迥然有別。成者無須藏于面具之后。 Winnersarenotafraidtodotheirownthinkingandtousetheirownknowledge.Theycanseparatefactsfromopinionsanddon’tpretendtohavealltheanswers.Theylistentoothers,evaluatewhattheysay,butcometotheirownconclusions.Althoughwinnerscanadmireandrespectotherpeople,theyarenottotallydefined,demolished,bound,orawedbythem.成者敢于利用所學(xué)，獨(dú)立思考，區(qū)分事實(shí)與觀點(diǎn)，且并不佯裝通曉所有答案。他們傾聽，權(quán)衡他人意見，但能得出自己的結(jié)論。盡管他們尊重，敬佩他們，但并不為他們所局限，所推翻，所束縛，也不對他人敬若神靈。 Winnersdonotplay“helpless”,nordotheyplaytheblaminggame.Instead,theyassumeresponsibilityfortheirownlives.Theydon’tgiveothersafalseauthorityoverthem.Winnersaretheirownbossesandknowit. 成者既不佯裝“無助”，亦不抱怨他人。相反，他們對人生總是獨(dú)擔(dān)責(zé)任，也不以權(quán)威姿態(tài)凌駕他人之上。他們主宰自己，而且能意識到這點(diǎn)。 Awinner’stimingisright.Winnersrespondappropriatelytothesituation.Theirresponsesarerelatedtothemessagesentandpreservethesignificance,worth,well-being,anddignityofthepeopleinvolved.Winnersknowthatforeverythingthereisaseasonandforeveryactivityatime. 成者善于審時度勢，隨機(jī)應(yīng)變。他們對所接受的信息做出回應(yīng)，維護(hù)當(dāng)事人的利益，康Yourforeverfriendgetsyouthroughthehardtimes,thesadtimes,andtheconfusedtimes.你真正的朋友會與你一同度過困難、傷心和煩惱的時刻。Ifyouturnandwalkaway,你轉(zhuǎn)身走開時，Yourforeverfriendfollows,真正的朋友會緊緊相隨，Ifyouloseyouway,你迷失方向時，Yourforeverfriendguidesyouandcheersyouon.真正的朋友會引導(dǎo)你，鼓勵你。Yourforeverfriendholdsyourhandandtellsyouthateverythingisgoingtobeokay.真正的朋友會握著你的手，告訴你一切都會好起來的。Andifyoufindsuchafriend,如果你找到了這樣的朋友，Youfeelhappyandcomplete,你會快樂，覺得人生完整，Becauseyouneednotworry,因?yàn)槟銦o需再憂慮。Yourhaveaforeverfriendforlife,你擁有了一個真正的朋友，Andforeverhasnoend.永永遠(yuǎn)遠(yuǎn)，永無止境。RelishtheMoment品味當(dāng)下Tuckedawayinoursubconsciousnessisanidyllicvision.Weseeourselvesonalongtripthatspansthecontinent.Wearetravelingbytrain.Outthewindows,wedrinkinthepassingsceneofcarsonnearbyhighways,ofchildrenwavingatacrossing,ofcattlegrazingonadistanthillside,ofsmokepouringfromapowerplant,ofrowuponrowofcornandwheat,offlatlandsandvalleys,ofmountainsandrollinghillsides,ofcityskylinesandvillagehalls。在我們內(nèi)心深處，總隱藏著一片詩情畫意的風(fēng)景。我們覺得自己正處于一次跨越大陸的漫長旅行中。坐在火車上，窗外流動的風(fēng)景在我們面前一掠而過：附近高速公路上馳騁的汽車;十字路口揮手的孩童;遠(yuǎn)處山坡上放牧的牛群;電廠排放的裊裊煙塵;成片的玉米地和小麥地;還有，平原、峽谷、山脈和丘陵;城市的輪廓和鄉(xiāng)間的農(nóng)舍。Butuppermostinourmindsisthefinaldestination.Onacertaindayatacertainhour,wewillpullintothestation.Bandswillbeplayingandflagswaving.Oncewegetthere,somanywonderfuldreamswillcometrueandthepiecesofourliveswillfittogetherlikeacompletedjigsawpuzzle.Howrestlesslywepacetheaisles,damningtheminutesforloitering-waiting,waiting,waitingforthestation?？墒?，我們想的最多的還是目的地。某天的某一刻，我們抵達(dá)站點(diǎn)，會有樂隊(duì)演奏，歡迎旗幟飄揚(yáng)。一旦我們到達(dá)了目的地，夢想就會變成現(xiàn)實(shí)，而我們破碎的生活會像一幅拼好的畫圖，變得完美。我們焦躁不安地在車廂里踱來踱去，詛咒火車的遲緩–等啊等，等待進(jìn)站的那一刻?！癢henwereachthestation,thatwillbeit!”wecry.“WhenI’m18.”“WhenIbuyanew450SLMercedesBenz!”"WhenIputthelastkidthroughcollege.”"WhenIhavepaidoffthemortgage!”“WhenIgetapromotion.”“WhenIreachtheageofretirement,Ishalllivehappilyeverafter!”“進(jìn)站時，一切都好了!”我們呼喊著?！蔽覞M18歲時?！?我買了一輛新的450SL奔馳轎車時!”"當(dāng)我供最小的孩子讀完大學(xué)?！?當(dāng)我還了所有的貸款?！?當(dāng)我退休的時候，就從此過上了幸福的生活!”Soonerorlater,wemustrealizethereisnostation,nooneplacetoarriveatonceandforall.Thetruejoyoflifeisthetrip.Thestationisonlyadream.Itconstantlyoutdistancesus。遲早，我們會意識到人生沒有終點(diǎn)站，沒有什么地方真正完美。生命的真正樂趣在于旅行的過程。終點(diǎn)站只是一個夢，它永遠(yuǎn)在我們的前方?！癛elishthemoment”isagoodmotto,especiallywhencoupledwithPsalm118:24,“ThisisthedaywhichtheLordhathmade;wewillrejoiceandbegladinit.”Itisn’ttheburdensoftodaythatdrivemenmad.Itistheregretsoveryesterdayandthefearoftomorrow.Regretandfeararetwinthieveswhorobusoftoday?！捌肺冬F(xiàn)在”本身就是一句很好的箴言，再加上《圣經(jīng)?詩篇》第118章第24行的這樣一句話，使得它更顯特別：”主創(chuàng)造了今天，我們?yōu)榛钤诮袢斩鴼g欣雀躍?！睂?dǎo)致人們瘋狂的往往不是今日的沉重，而是對昨日的懊悔和對明日的畏懼。懊悔和畏懼如同一對孿生的竊賊，偷走了我們的今天。Sostoppacingtheaislesandcountingthemiles.Instead,climbmoremountains,eatmoreicecreams,gobarefootmoreoften,swimmorerivers,watchmoresunsets,laughmore,cryless.Lifemustbelivedaswegoalong.Thestationwillcomesoonenough.因此，別再在車廂內(nèi)徘徊，不要計算著余下的行程吧!讓我們攀登更多的高山，吃冰激凌，赤腳漫步，游泳，欣賞日落，多點(diǎn)兒歡笑，少些淚水吧。讓生命活在我們前進(jìn)的腳步中，那么車站很快就會到達(dá)。有種旅行叫作人生 Lifecomesinapackage.Thispackageincludeshappinessandsorrow,failureandsuccess,hopeanddespair.Lifeisalearningprocess.Experiencesinlifeteachusnewlessonsandmakeusabetterperson.Witheachpassingdaywelearntohandlevarioussituations.人生好似一個包裹，這個包裹里藏著快樂與悲傷、成功與失敗，希望與絕望。人生也是一個學(xué)習(xí)的過程。那些經(jīng)歷給我們上了全新的課，讓我們變得更好。隨著每一天的過去，我們學(xué)會了處理各種各樣的問題。 Love Loveplaysapivotalroleonoutlife.Lovemakesyoufeelwanted.Withoutloveapersoncouldgohaywardandalsobecomecruelandferocious.Intheearlystageofourlife,ourparentsaretheoneswhoshoweruswithunconditionalloveandcare,theyteachusaboutwhatisrightandwrong,goodandbad.Butwealwaystendtotakethisforgranted.Itisonlyaftermarriageandhavingkidsthatapersonunderstandsandbecomessensitivetoothersfeelings.Kidsmakeapersonresponsibleandmatureandhelpustounderstandlifebetter.愛 愛在生活之外扮演了一個關(guān)鍵的角色。愛使你想要得到些什么。沒有愛，一個人將走向不歸路，變得兇暴、殘忍。在我們最初的人生道路上，我們的父母給予了我們無條件的關(guān)愛，他們教會我們判斷正確與錯誤、好與壞。然而我們常常把這想當(dāng)然了，只有等到我們結(jié)了婚并且有了孩子之后，一個人才會懂得并注意別人的感受。孩子讓我們變得富有責(zé)任心、變得成熟穩(wěn)重，并且更好的理解人生。 FailureandSuccess Failureisthepathtosuccess.Ithelpsustotouchthesky,teachesustosurviveandshowsusaspecificway.Successbringsinmoney,fame,prideandself-respect.Hereitbecomesveryimportanttokeepourheadonoutshoulder.TheonlywaytoshowourgratitudetoGodforbestowingsuccessonusisbybeinghumble,modes