1、If we dream everything is possible,敢于夢想 一切都將成為可能,王保忠 2012-11-10,大學生&愛情,To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.,對于世界而言，你是一個人；但是對于某個人，你是他的整個世界。,Long- distance relationship,A long-distance relationship (LDR) is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when

2、 the partners are separated by a considerable distance.,Long-distance relationship(LDR)指雙方相隔距離遙遠，但卻保有親密關(guān)系的狀況，也就是我們所說的“異地戀”或“遠程戀愛”。,Before the popularity of internet dating, long-distance relationships were not as common, as the primary forms of communication between the romance lovers usually involv

3、ed either telephone conversations or corresponding via mail. However, with the advent of the Internet, long-distance relationships have exploded in popularity as they become less challenging to sustain with the use of modern technology. Technologies including cell phones, e-mail, online chatting and

4、 video conferencing have made it possible to keep in touch.,在網(wǎng)戀盛行之前，異地戀還不是很普遍，因為那時候戀愛雙方的溝通交流方式僅限于電話或?qū)懶?。不過，隨著網(wǎng)絡(luò)的普及，異地戀忽然遍地開花。因為現(xiàn)代技術(shù)使遠程感情的維系變得不再那么困難。手機、電子郵件、在線聊天以及視頻聊天等通訊技術(shù)可以讓雙方隨時保持聯(lián)系。,The people of us nothing difficult from other Take the dream into university What in the university Eating sleeping l

5、eaning Also has telephone It is made to settle the distance for us We have the love in the university As same at suffer from the distance of love It let us nervous.,我們這一群人和其他人沒有什么不同 出生在八零和九零的銜接處 懷揣著夢想進入大學 大學有什么呢 吃飯 睡覺 上課 也有電話 他是為了解決我們得距離而產(chǎn)生的 在大學中我們有了我們得愛情 同樣忍受愛的距離 它讓我們惶恐不安,我們這么一群人和其他人沒有什么不同 懷揣著夢想進入大

6、學 大學有什么呢 吃飯 睡覺 上課 也有電話 他是為了解決我們得距離而產(chǎn)生的 在大學我們有了我們的愛情 同樣忍受愛的距離 它讓我們惶恐不安,A perfect love consists of three parts to form a complete love and the three parts are Closeness Passion Commitment . When all three parts are satisfied your love will be strong and perfect. It will bring us a feeling of certainty

7、 that we can truly enjoy our true love .,一段比較完全的愛他是需要有三個板塊來組成這個完整的愛，這三個板塊就是一個親密感、一個激情、還有一個承諾。這三個板塊滿足的時候你的愛、愛情才可以牢固豐滿。給人產(chǎn)生一種很有把握真正享受愛情。,I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.,Its hard enough to make local relationships work, but having mile, States, and som

8、etimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult. However, successful long distance relationships can and do exist. Heres how to give yours every chance to survive and thrive.,經(jīng)營一段本地戀情已然相當困難，更何況當兩人相隔數(shù)英里，或者一個州，甚至是一片海洋。然而，成功的異地戀確實存在。以下方法教你把握住每一個機會，讓你的異地戀生存并繁榮。,Ask the important questions

9、at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship.,No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, wont make you cry.,首先要弄明白一些重要的問題，從而更清晰地認識你們兩人的關(guān)系。,Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious? or What are yo

10、u looking to get out of the relationship?.,如果兩人的關(guān)系更進一步，會考慮搬家嗎？或是：彼此想從兩人的關(guān)系中獲取什么呢？,Since you wont be seeing each other, its important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These dont always have to be long, in-depth conversations. Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies.

11、 Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program or web cams for that visual connection.,Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.,盡管你們看不到對方，但是建立和維持情緒上的溝通十分重要。并不總是需要冗長而又有深度的交流。彼此分享小成就或是小挫折。彼此征詢意見。發(fā)短信或是聊QQ,要不就去視頻聊天。,Communication is extremely important .,Try to make the time to

12、visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits you to. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone calls. You need to see each other up close and personal every chance you get. The key here is to set up some rules about frequency of communication an

13、d visits and stick to them, consistency can help a LDR survive.,Visit often 多見面,如果時間允許，預(yù)算允許，那能多見面就多見面吧。只打電話是不能讓感情茁壯成長的。只要有機會，就要面對面。這方面的秘訣是建立一系列關(guān)于日常交流和見面的制度,堅持執(zhí)行，這樣可以保住你們異地戀的小命兒。,It is never too late to fall in love.,Do things together. Defy the distance. 統(tǒng)一協(xié)作，藐視距離。,As a long distance couple, its imp

14、ortant to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other forms of interaction are important.很重要的一點，作為異地情侶，除了平時打電話你們還應(yīng)該一起做些別的事情。長期打電話是不是很無聊？嘗試其他形式的協(xié)作非常重要。,Just think people in shor

15、t-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously.想想看，非異地的情侶絕不會花很多時間去打電話，而是一起去做一些事情。你們也要嘗試著這樣做，盡量找點可以一起做的事情，比如看一樣的電視節(jié)目或電影。,Commun

16、icate in some way every day, more than once if possible. 不管怎么著，每天都交流，并且盡可能的多些吧。,Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers. 利用異地戀帶來的優(yōu)勢。,Avoid jealousy and be trusting. 不要妒嫉，要信任。,送給異地戀人們英文情話精選,Thank you for comforting me when Im sadLoving me when Im madPicking me up when Im do

17、wnThank you for being my friend and being aroundTeaching me the meaning of loveEncouraging me when I need a shoveBut most of all thank you forLoving me for who I am,I dont know what to say.Im just thinking of you a lot at this moment,感謝你在我傷心時安慰我，當我生氣時你護著我，當我沮喪時你拉拔我。感謝你作我的朋友并且在我身旁，教導(dǎo)我愛的意義是什麼，當我需要動力時你

18、鼓勵我。但我最想感謝你的是，愛上像我這樣的一個人。,Love is more than a word,it says so much.When I see these four letters,I almost feel your touch.This only happened sinceI fell in love with you.Why this word does this,I havent got a clue Love,I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at nig

19、ht,愛不單是一個字，它還代表了許多意涵，當我看到這四個字母時，我?guī)缀跄芨惺艿侥銉?nèi)心的感動。但是這只發(fā)生在，我愛上你之後，為何這個字有如此的魔力，我也搞不清楚。,If I could save time in a bottlethe first thing that Id like to dois to save every day until eternity passes awayjust to spend them with youif I could make days last foreverif words could make wishes come trueId save every day like a treasure and thenagain I would spend them with you,如果我能把時間存入一個瓶子，我要作的第一件事就是，把每一天都存下來直到永恒，再和你一起慢慢度過。如果我能把時間化作永恒，如果我的愿望能一一成真，我會把每天都像寶貝一樣存起來，再和你一起慢慢度過。,Thank you for sta